events in one’s life which can lead to having abused dog syndrome

[fuxkdakikez]

• getting beat up in front of multiple people. even worse if it’s on video, you legit can’t look people in the eyes

• being insulted in front of people and you have no comeback, making you look defeated and weak

• you say a joke and no one laughs, causing you to never speak again

• being teased by boys or girls and you don’t know how to handle to it (there’s no way to respond to teasing anyway)

• teacher asks you to answer a question and you get it wrong in front of the whole class

• betrayal by a close friend (they throw away your friendship over something small e.g. they owe money and don’t want to pay you back)

• getting laughed at for looks, haircut, clothes, etc

• you behave in a non-nt manner and people around you sense it, giving each other a weird look due to your autism. you realise this so you slowly leave the group and stop trying to interact with people as a whole

• getting your ego destroyed. for example, you act tough and try sizing people up, only for them to humble you with ease, letting you know that you are weak and small. even worse if it’s in front of multiple people, truly embarrassing

• finding out someone who you view as your close friend has other friends who he/she is closer with, making you question your whole friendship (only affects people with not many friends)

• girl breaks up with you and she finds another guy shortly after, letting you know that you were never her main priority (this only affects dudes who don’t have options)

there might be other events which i haven’t included but this is what first comes to mind

 

[grief]

how to get over it

 

[fuxkdakikez]

how to get over it

once and abused dog always an abused dog

 

[grief]

once and abused dog always an abused dog

have you read my thread? i dont see why i'm like this, I had a normal upbringing

 

[fuxkdakikez]

have you read my thread? i dont see why i'm like this, I had a normal upbringing

tag me

 

[Brus Wane]

• getting beat up in front of multiple people. even worse if it’s on video, you legit can’t look people in the eyes

• being insulted in front of people and you have no comeback, making you look defeated and weak

• you say a joke and no one laughs, causing you to never speak again

• being teased by boys or girls and you don’t know how to handle to it (there’s no way to respond to teasing anyway)

• teacher asks you to answer a question and you get it wrong in front of the whole class

• betrayal by a close friend (they throw away your friendship over something small e.g. they owe money and don’t want to pay you back)

• getting laughed at for looks, haircut, clothes, etc

• you behave in a non-nt manner and people around you sense it, giving each other a weird look due to your autism. you realise this so you slowly leave the group and stop trying to interact with people as a whole

• getting your ego destroyed. for example, you act tough and try sizing people up, only for them to humble you with ease, letting you know that you are weak and small. even worse if it’s in front of multiple people, truly embarrassing

• finding out someone who you view as your close friend has other friends who he/she is closer with, making you question your whole friendship (only affects people with not many friends)

• girl breaks up with you and she finds another guy shortly after, letting you know that you were never her main priority (this only affects dudes who don’t have options)

there might be other events which i haven’t included but this is what first comes to mind

It's fucking brutal and not talked about here enough

Problem is positive/negativefeedbackpill is severely underrated here

Think of an uggo who was brutally abused throughout his childhood. There was literally no positive feedback loop for him to develop himself and have to confidence to meet his 'social potential'.

I was morbidly obese throughout highschool and was brutally bullied & abused. I had no friends and only hung out with fellow losers.
I dropped to a normie weight just before college but by then my head was totally fucked upside down.

NonNT, zero confidence or social skills and kept to myself for the most part, only hanging out with losers and social outcast and inevitably becoming one again.

I'm old as fuck now, I am aggressively leanmaxxing and doing my best to talk to strangers and shit...but it's hard man.

 

[wsada]

9/11 of this stuff happend to mee

 

[Nick.Harte]

Brutal shit ngl. Life is good for only a few % of people

 

[mortis]

I wanted to talk with my oneitis on the way back home from college and she was with her friend. she ignored me and ran faster forward and after 10 Mins she called my name and told me "we are going faster" and I had to go other way. That moment made me blackpilled to this day.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

I wanted to talk with my oneitis on the way back home from college and she was with her friend. she ignored me and ran faster forward and after 10 Mins she called my name and told me "we are going faster" and I had to go other way. That moment made me blackpilled to this day.

brutal

 

[romanstock]

having a loudmouth dad who always talks over you until you learn there's no point in even trying to say anything

 

[try2beme]

Someone attempted to kidnap
Being molested
Watching your parent die
Having a poor single mentalcel mother
Having an abusive sibling
Suddenly being giga ugly during puberty after being an adorable child to everyone

Thats what made me non NT. I didnt let people bully me because i went through GENUINE problems.

 

[wsada]

Someone attempted to kidnap
Being molested
Watching your parent die
Having a poor single mentalcel mother
Having an abusive sibling
Suddenly being giga ugly during puberty after being an adorable child to everyone

Thats what made me non NT. I didnt let people bully me because i went through GENUINE problems.

Damn atleast that means you're strong and brave because you didn't kill yourself!stand strong

 

[try2beme]

Damn atleast that means you're strong and brave because you didn't kill yourself!stand strong

I tried to many times. When my sister moved to dubai i stopped attempting suicide bc my mom wouldnt have anyone if i was gone and my sister was in another country

 

[fuxkdakikez]

bump

 

[BearBoy]

Being raped by me

 

[fuxkdakikez]

Being raped by me

how could i forget

 

[Pikabro]

Someone attempted to kidnap
Being molested
Watching your parent die
Having a poor single mentalcel mother
Having an abusive sibling
Suddenly being giga ugly during puberty after being an adorable child to everyone

Thats what made me non NT. I didnt let people bully me because i went through GENUINE problems.

Brutal as FUCK ngl, would rope if I went through that

 

[try2beme]

Brutal as FUCK ngl, would rope if I went through that

Thanks

 

[Pikabro]

Thanks

Who molested/tried to kidnap U?

 

[try2beme]

Who molested/tried to kidnap U?

Someone I trusted my whole life molested me otherwise it would have never happened

It was a random man tried to snatch me from the street

 

[Pikabro]

Someone I trusted my whole life molested me otherwise it would have never happened

It was a random man tried to snatch me from the street

Spoiler

brutal. My only high cortisol moment in life was when I got mugged and punched up a bit. But the only real long term impact was when my dad just gave me droning lecture and put me down. Getting beaten up is nothing anyway. When you obsess over these things and your weakness instead of improving is what fucks you up

 

[mogstars]

• getting beat up in front of multiple people. even worse if it’s on video, you legit can’t look people in the eyes

• being insulted in front of people and you have no comeback, making you look defeated and weak

• you say a joke and no one laughs, causing you to never speak again

• being teased by boys or girls and you don’t know how to handle to it (there’s no way to respond to teasing anyway)

• teacher asks you to answer a question and you get it wrong in front of the whole class

• betrayal by a close friend (they throw away your friendship over something small e.g. they owe money and don’t want to pay you back)

• getting laughed at for looks, haircut, clothes, etc

• you behave in a non-nt manner and people around you sense it, giving each other a weird look due to your autism. you realise this so you slowly leave the group and stop trying to interact with people as a whole

• getting your ego destroyed. for example, you act tough and try sizing people up, only for them to humble you with ease, letting you know that you are weak and small. even worse if it’s in front of multiple people, truly embarrassing

• finding out someone who you view as your close friend has other friends who he/she is closer with, making you question your whole friendship (only affects people with not many friends)

• girl breaks up with you and she finds another guy shortly after, letting you know that you were never her main priority (this only affects dudes who don’t have options)

there might be other events which i haven’t included but this is what first comes to mind

My childhood described

 

[mogstars]

Someone attempted to kidnap
Being molested
Watching your parent die
Having a poor single mentalcel mother
Having an abusive sibling
Suddenly being giga ugly during puberty after being an adorable child to everyone

Thats what made me non NT. I didnt let people bully me because i went through GENUINE problems.

I love how being ugly is on the same level of being molested and watching a parent die

 

[TheMaxxer333]

I love how being ugly is on the same level of being molested and watching a parent die

Tbf I’ve seen people go through that shit and they’re always NT. Meanwhile I’m an abused dog having two parents not being poor and have never been molested.

 

[PickleTheSlayer]

having a loudmouth dad who always talks over you until you learn there's no point in even trying to say anything

Fuark this hurts

 

[6′2 still over]

It's fucking brutal and not talked about here enough

Problem is positive/negativefeedbackpill is severely underrated here

Think of an uggo who was brutally abused throughout his childhood. There was literally no positive feedback loop for him to develop himself and have to confidence to meet his 'social potential'.

I was morbidly obese throughout highschool and was brutally bullied & abused. I had no friends and only hung out with fellow losers.
I dropped to a normie weight just before college but by then my head was totally fucked upside down.

NonNT, zero confidence or social skills and kept to myself for the most part, only hanging out with losers and social outcast and inevitably becoming one again.

I'm old as fuck now, I am aggressively leanmaxxing and doing my best to talk to strangers and shit...but it's hard man.

I had the exact same experience except I dropped out lol now all I do is rot couldn't take the bullying I guess pretty sure I'll get diagnosed with something if I go to see a psychiatrist

 

[barettrealrx]

• getting beat up in front of multiple people. even worse if it’s on video, you legit can’t look people in the eyes

• being insulted in front of people and you have no comeback, making you look defeated and weak

• you say a joke and no one laughs, causing you to never speak again

• being teased by boys or girls and you don’t know how to handle to it (there’s no way to respond to teasing anyway)

• teacher asks you to answer a question and you get it wrong in front of the whole class

• betrayal by a close friend (they throw away your friendship over something small e.g. they owe money and don’t want to pay you back)

• getting laughed at for looks, haircut, clothes, etc

• you behave in a non-nt manner and people around you sense it, giving each other a weird look due to your autism. you realise this so you slowly leave the group and stop trying to interact with people as a whole

• getting your ego destroyed. for example, you act tough and try sizing people up, only for them to humble you with ease, letting you know that you are weak and small. even worse if it’s in front of multiple people, truly embarrassing

• finding out someone who you view as your close friend has other friends who he/she is closer with, making you question your whole friendship (only affects people with not many friends)

• girl breaks up with you and she finds another guy shortly after, letting you know that you were never her main priority (this only affects dudes who don’t have options)

there might be other events which i haven’t included but this is what first comes to mind

Over ig this means im abused dog