How to build a Social circle from scratch ?(Serious replies only)

[Sonofzeus]

Being introverted and not socialising has really impacted my life negatively. I'm about to graduate from college in 10 days and i was invisible to everyone for 3 years. I've been lonely for as long as I can remember, spending most of my time isolated in my room playing video games. I don't have any real social life, and even in high school, I wasn't close to anyone. They were just acquaintances. I may join any university next year for my Masters and I want to want to build a social circle from scratch. I feel like having a social circle is more important than having a girlfriend. I read somwhere that getting friends after 21-22 gets difficult and it is transactional unlike school friendships. What can i do now?

 

[Kroker]

Find people who are alike. Do activities with them.

If you're into drugs you get along with drugies, if you are a nerd you know the rest.

But never be an imposter to fit in.

 

[thebuffdon690]

Same. It’s definitely harder after 22 because people become more self centred and mature. But it’s definitely possible if you’re still NT and good looking (at least a MTN). It really depends on your personality and looks tbh

 

[Deleted member 57464]

yu need social circle form your parents

 

[iblamejews]

ldar

 

[Sonofzeus]

Find people who are alike. Do activities with them.

If you're into drugs you get along with drugies, if you are a nerd you know the rest.

But never be an imposter to fit in.

where to find then?

 

[Sonofzeus]

Same. It’s definitely harder after 22 because people become more self centred and mature. But it’s definitely possible if you’re still NT and good looking (at least a MTN). It really depends on your personality and looks tbh

i think i look very avg. Can you tell in DM if i look Mtn atleast? Is it over for me like i can't have a normal healthy social life? How are you coping?

 

[thebuffdon690]

i think i look very avg. Can you tell in DM if i look Mtn atleast? Is it over for me like i can't have a normal healthy social life? How are you coping?

Pm me then. Yeh I think it’s over if you don’t. Not sure about coping I don’t play video games just read stuff and study I guess, go gym that’s about it

 

[dopaminebeyondfried]

I had a mental breakdown in college

 

[heypartner]

where to find then?

Imo i think asking for their socials can sometimes help , like for example u can see it in their tiktok reposts or like their pfp.

Or just like subtly talk abt something if ur not sure if its a good idea.
I'll write an example

"Hey [name] have you heard about [topic]?"

Instead of like

"Hey [name] i love [topic]"

Goodluck brocel