How to pump n dump a girl that wants to lock you down as boyfriend?

[TrestIsBest]

I have a girl coming over tomorrow (first date) that is very into me but I also think she also wants a LTR. If this is the case, how do I still fuck her on that date without her resisting thinking I just want to pump and dump (which is true)?

 

[Deleted member 795]

Do what they do usually.
Ghost her (after fucking her of course)

 

[TrestIsBest]

Do what they do usually.
Ghost her (after fucking her of course)

Yeah ofc but how do I make sure she is not withholding pussy in hopes she can get me into a LTR?

 

[Xangsane]

I have a girl coming over tomorrow (first date) that is very into me but I also think she also wants a LTR. If this is the case, how do I still fuck her on that date without her resisting thinking I just want to pump and dump (which is true)?

Move on.

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah ofc but how do I make sure she is not withholding pussy in hopes she can get me into a LTR?

Just move on. Don't manipulate people.

 

[TrestIsBest]

Move on.

Yeah I think you are right, if tomorrow doesn't lead to seks, I'll just give up on her

 

[chawaje]

Try to make her come to you if shes really that into you, she should come undoubtely

 

[TrestIsBest]

Just move on. Don't manipulate people.

I never implied I was looking for a relationship. It was just the setting we met in and the degree to which she likes me that make it highly likely she wants to get me into a relationship

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah I think you are right, if tomorrow doesn't lead to seks, I'll just give up on her

Pumping and dumping a foid when she wants a relationship is honestly one of the shittiest things someone can do. Remember that foids release oxytocin after sex, she will be bonded to you and once you pump and dump her, you will develop a bad reputation among her social circle and the circles linked.

Don't do it, and respect yourself.

 

[Xangsane]

I never implied I was looking for a relationship. It was just the setting we met in and the degree to which she likes me that make it highly likely she wants to get me into a relationship

Are you not attracted to her?
Go on a date with her, and if she's showing signs of wanting an LTR, don't have sex with her. Just say you aren't feeling any chemistry.

 

[TrestIsBest]

Try to make her come to you if shes really that into you, she should come undoubtely

She straight up asked me if we she should go to her or mine place jfl. But I'm realizing I'm overthinking this shit. What one month of no pussy does to a man

 

[TrestIsBest]

Are you not attracted to her?

Not enough to be in a LTR with her, nah

 

[Xangsane]

She straight up asked me if we she should go to her or mine place jfl. But I'm realizing I'm overthinking this shit. What one month of no pussy does to a man

What makes you think she wants an LTR?

 

[Xangsane]

Not enough to be in a LTR with her, nah

What do you rate her, and yourself in comparison?
What rating is your minimum for LTR?

 

[AlexBrown84]

This is also Provlem I now experience where Thai girls will get mad if I date other girls on days I don’t see them

 

[chawaje]

She straight up asked me if we she should go to her or mine place jfl. But I'm realizing I'm overthinking this shit. What one month of no pussy does to a man

Then invite her and fuck and if you like her enough fwb her

 

[TrestIsBest]

What makes you think she wants an LTR?

The way she texts, showing extreme interest. She set up the date basically

 

[chawaje]

The way she texts, showing extreme interest. She set up the date basically

She might have catched feelings lmao
If you dont care just use her for sex

 

[Xangsane]

The way she texts, showing extreme interest. She set up the date basically

What's her rating in comparison to yours?
Just go on a date but don't have sex with her unless she's willing to have casual. If you only have sex with her when she wants an LTR, you're gonna destroy your reputation.

 

[Xangsane]

She might have catched feelings lmao
If you dont care just use her for sex

Bad idea.

 

[TrestIsBest]

What do you rate her, and yourself in comparison?
What rating is your minimum for LTR?

Mmh I think like 4.5-5 out of 10. And I'm a 6 facially I'd say. I have good style and height (6'4) going for me too. I think for a LTR I'd like for her to be at least a 6.5. But it's hard to put this into abstract numbers tbh.

 

[Xangsane]

Mmh I think like 4.5-5 out of 10. And I'm a 6 facially I'd say. I have good style and height (6'4) going for me too. I think for a LTR I'd like for her to be at least a 6.5. But it's hard to put this into abstract numbers tbh.

Cancel the date and don't lead her on then. Did you meet her off an app?
If you did, and especially if it's Hinge, she could report you. Many clingy foids have done this and they did actually get the guy's account banned.

 

[chawaje]

Im experiencing literally the same

 

[Xangsane]

Im experiencing literally the same

What's her rating in comparison to yours?
Just go on a date but don't have sex with her unless she's willing to have casual. If you only have sex with her when she wants an LTR, you're gonna destroy your reputation.

 

[chawaje]

She moggs me lmao

 

[Xangsane]

She moggs me lmao

Does something about her turn you off, or you don't want an LTR?

 

[TrestIsBest]

I'm a high-standardcel tbh @Xangsane. But I just ask myself: is this girl attractive enough to be the mother of my children (pass on her genes onto my kids)? If not, I don't see her as LTR material

 

[chawaje]

Does something about her turn you off, or you don't want an LTR?

I wanna enjoy my psl lifestyle

 

[TrestIsBest]

Does something about her turn you off, or you don't want an LTR?

Yeah just not super attracted to her. Maybe I'm overrating her too

 

[Xangsane]

I'm a high-standardcel tbh @Xangsane. But I just ask myself: is this girl attractive enough to be the mother of my children (pass on her genes onto my kids)? If not, I don't see her as LTR material

Mind if you DM me her pic pls?

 

[Kmscurry]

Start acting like a bluepilled cuck once you are done fucking her. Basically start simping, put her over your own life, open up your feelings to her and she will be gone in no time.

 

[Xangsane]

I wanna enjoy my psl lifestyle

Alright, but don't fool a foid who wants LTR. Your reputation will be damaged within her social circle and her circles connected.

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah just not super attracted to her. Maybe I'm overrating her too

I have a feeling she's lower than a 4.5/10.

 

[TrestIsBest]

Mind if you DM me her pic pls?

I have zero pics of her bro I met her irl and write with her in Apple Messages

 

[TrestIsBest]

I have a feeling she's lower than a 4.5/10.

Yeah probably. Send me pics of girls you think are between 4-5

 

[chawaje]

Alright, but don't fool a foid who wants LTR. Your reputation will be damaged within her social circle and her circles connected.

I didnt show interest but i know shes inlove ngl its prob my ogee curve

 

[TrestIsBest]

According to this, she's at least a 5 @Xangsane

 

[MiroslavBulldosex]

You're part of the problem

 

[TrestIsBest]

Cancel the date and don't lead her on then. Did you meet her off an app?
If you did, and especially if it's Hinge, she could report you. Many clingy foids have done this and they did actually get the guy's account banned.

IF I fuck her once and don't want to see her again whereas she want to, I'll just make up a bullshit excuse, like I'm to focused on uni right now to be dating

 

[TrestIsBest]

You're part of the problem

Like I'm stealing the looks matches of guys below me or what?

 

[Xangsane]

I have zero pics of her bro I met her irl and write with her in Apple Messages

No worries, any celeb that looks like her?

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah probably. Send me pics of girls you think are between 4-5

What ethnicity?

 

[Xangsane]

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According to this, she's at least a 5 @Xangsane

So therefore I'm imagining a foid who resembles Mayim Bialik

 

[Xangsane]

You're part of the problem

I agree

 

[chawaje]

All girls are whores so fuck her like it should be

 

[Xangsane]

IF I fuck her once and don't want to see her again whereas she want to, I'll just make up a bullshit excuse, like I'm to focused on uni right now to be dating

Good idea but I still won't recommend that.

 

[TrestIsBest]

No worries, any celeb that looks like her?

Not really. White, brunette. Nice eyes, shitty lower third

 

[Xangsane]

Not really. White, brunette. Nice eyes, shitty lower third

Recessed then?

 

[TrestIsBest]

Recessed then?

Yup

 

[Xangsane]

Yup

I see.
Like this foid but with better eyes?