I cant fathom dating mindset of normies, help me out

[Akhi]

I was at a birthday party last weekend and I talked to a friend about dating dynamics, we came to that topic because he told me that a girl at that party who I know was flexing getting with every guy at some weird venue

I told him how this is not a flex for a woman and how its disgusting

he said its hypocritical to judge women for being whores but admire guys for doing the same

I rebutalled with the classic argument that its easy for an average woman to get laid while its hard for an average guy (and how this goes back to evolution --> basically for 99% of humanity woman had much more to lose from casual sex so it makes sense that theyre much pickier)

anyways this discussion went on to the topic on how I personally could never date a woman with a high bodycount cuz I'd feel weird when every 2nd guy I meet was alr in her

his argument was: But that is all in the past, right now in this moment she's choosing you so you shouldn't be insecure

I admire his mindset tbh and I have no valid counterargument to it, what do you think? I wish I had a brain like normies who can just cope with everything

thoughts? (its brootally over)

 

[NewOneXY]

I also try to think like that

But lets be real, you are an cuck if bodycount doesnt matter to you

Bodycount is the most important thing on a woman, even above looks

 

[pentamogged9000]

Bodycount is the most important thing on a woman, even above looks

Guys never believe me when I say I'd rather an ltb with no bodies or guy friends than a stacylite with a couple bodies and guy friends, just way less stress for me knowing she has never been fucked.

 

[Akhi]

I also try to think like that

But lets be real, you are an cuck if bodycount doesnt matter to you

Bodycount is the most important thing on a woman, even above looks

Guys never believe me when I say I'd rather an ltb with no bodies or guy friends than a stacylite with a couple bodies and guy friends, just way less stress for me knowing she has never been fucked.

the thing to ask yourselves is the following: do you actually have a problem with a girl having high bc or is it just a proejction of your own insecurity, a fear of not being adequate and being worse (doesnt matter in which way) compared to her former dudes?

 

[NewOneXY]

Guys never believe me when I say I'd rather an ltb with no bodies or guy friends than a stacylite with a couple bodies and guy friends, just way less stress for me knowing she has never been fucked.

a ltb virgin is more respectable than stacylite with 10 bodies

 

[pentamogged9000]

the thing to ask yourselves is the following: do you actually have a problem with a girl having high bc or is it just a proejction of your own insecurity, a fear of not being adequate and being worse (doesnt matter in which way) compared to her former dudes?

For me it's a mix of those, obviously it's suifuel if she has been with better guys, but also knowing how hard it is to love after you have been in love with/made love to so many different people

 

[NewOneXY]

the thing to ask yourselves is the following: do you actually have a problem with a girl having high bc or is it just a proejction of your own insecurity, a fear of not being adequate and being worse (doesnt matter in which way) compared to her former dudes?

no, no insecurity

A woman who has already fucked 15 guys , sucked their dick, has licked their cum, is disgusting

its disgust

 

[pentamogged9000]

a ltb virgin is more respectable than stacylite with 10 bodies

Easier to love too imo

 

[drimprovement]

I was at a birthday party last weekend and I talked to a friend about dating dynamics, we came to that topic because he told me that a girl at that party who I know was flexing getting with every guy at some weird venue

I told him how this is not a flex for a woman and how its disgusting

he said its hypocritical to judge women for being whores but admire guys for doing the same

I rebutalled with the classic argument that its easy for an average woman to get laid while its hard for an average guy (and how this goes back to evolution --> basically for 99% of humanity woman had much more to lose from casual sex so it makes sense that theyre much pickier)

anyways this discussion went on to the topic on how I personally could never date a woman with a high bodycount cuz I'd feel weird when every 2nd guy I meet was alr in her

his argument was: But that is all in the past, right now in this moment she's choosing you so you shouldn't be insecure

I admire his mindset tbh and I have no valid counterargument to it, what do you think? I wish I had a brain like normies who can just cope with everything

thoughts? (its brootally over)

Oxytocin levels, microchimerism, divorce stats...

 

[Sprinkles]

Idk about her bc as long as she‘s doing everything she did with all those other guys with me

none of that “oh I don’t like giving bjs” shit when she did them with other guys