i think anxiety & rejection is the main thing that holds people back when approaching girls and meeting them and it’s a huge nerf

[shredmaxer]

i suffer with bad anxiety and have done for so many years and it’s robbed me if so many opportunities in my life so far honestly, but mostly with socialising and meeting girls, i think i speak for most of this forum when i say that anxiety is what holds us back in many aspects of life not even just with foids, and the fear of failure and rejection.

i think a lot of us on this forum are just actually big sufferers from social anxiety and that’s one of the reasons we are here, some come here for many other reasons but i think it all comes down to us not being happy with how we look and it’s a mental issue that we must all overcome.

i know looks are important and you need that initial attraction from girls for them to like you because it’s human nature, but i also think we sometimes deep it way to much here and you can go down a very deep and dark rabbit hole if you go the wrong direction

i think most users would benefit from just going out more and working on social skills that spending most of the time trying to change things you cannot genetically change, unless you want to get surgerys.

i mean let’s be real how many subhumans do you see on the street that have decent looking girls, a lot especially where i’m from in the UK it’s basically everywhere men are mogged by their partners.

the thing is we would see them and be like how the fuck has he done that then? but the guys themselves just don’t give a fuck, they are the ones that will approach girls and actually try to get their number/snap. These are the guys that end up fucking more girls than you even though you mog them. simply because they do not care and are not afraid of rejection from a girl

i have a friend who i mog so hard but he fucks htbs all the time he’s shown me their instas and all that shit and he is MTN and out of shape, yet his bc is like 10+ idk could be 20 and it’s because he isn’t autistic asf and just does not give a fuck, charisma is a thing i think a lot of people underestimate too if you’re charasmatic and confident in the way you look girls will sense that and be automatically attracted to you more than the average looksmaxer that sits on phone in the corner in a club that won’t approach anyone.

it sounds cliche and dumb asf but confidence is actually key in pulling foids, unless you have really been dealt bad cards and you are actually subhuman and a manlet then you are FINE you won’t struggle with girls as much as you think you would.

tldr: Get Real and get out in the world

 

[Anasurimbor]

true. In the long run its numbers game. 99% of men are invisible to women unless the male makes the first step and makes hes intention clear. Then you start appearing on their radar. Obviously you gonna get rejected a lot but at the same time some are gonna reciprocate your interest. Females biology is very egoistical. They get turned on when smb is desiring them even though initially a guy was invisible for them.

Ideally you should pass looks threshold (be above average) otherwise the rejection rate just gonna not worth the effort. Better play social circle/status game.

 

[WilkJax]

100% and you have to realize that most dudes aren't like this community. They aren't trying to better themselves all the time to get an edge on others instead, they sit and cope and plead to god why they don't get women. If you develop healthy habits including confidence and charisma, then women will flock to you. That's how you join the 5% (Rip Rich Piana).

Another thing I'd like to mention that I saw Jordan Peterson say is that women tend to go for those "asshole" dudes because their ego is enough to persuade women that they are COMPETANT. Competence is key to keeping a woman(the ability to do something successfully or efficiently) because women for thousands of years have relied on men to get shit done.

Competence can come in many ways. Money, muscles, a good job, helping others. These are all different ways that us men could build our competence, most just dont want to put in the work or the time. They can cope ig

 

[Napoleon1800]

No social skills for my subhuman face

 

[Allornothing]

100% and you have to realize that most dudes aren't like this community. They aren't trying to better themselves all the time to get an edge on others instead, they sit and cope and plead to god why they don't get women. If you develop healthy habits including confidence and charisma, then women will flock to you. That's how you join the 5% (Rip Rich Piana).

Another thing I'd like to mention that I saw Jordan Peterson say is that women tend to go for those "asshole" dudes because their ego is enough to persuade women that they are COMPETANT. Competence is key to keeping a woman(the ability to do something successfully or efficiently) because women for thousands of years have relied on men to get shit done.

Competence can come in many ways. Money, muscles, a good job, helping others. These are all different ways that us men could build our competence, most just dont want to put in the work or the time. They can cope ig

Not a word no girl will love you if you don’t look good, insane delusions if you believe otherwise.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Yeah let me just be more confident on tinder bro.

If you still struggle with tinder match counts then you have a looks problem. Any attempts to try and be more “low inhib” before fixing a looks problem will lead to nothing but even more destroyed confidence.

 

[ReinhardRacist]

Dnrd

 

[House Lannister]

You are absolutely right

 

[JBWNeetcel]

i suffer with bad anxiety and have done for so many years and it’s robbed me if so many opportunities in my life so far honestly, but mostly with socialising and meeting girls, i think i speak for most of this forum when i say that anxiety is what holds us back in many aspects of life not even just with foids, and the fear of failure and rejection.

i think a lot of us on this forum are just actually big sufferers from social anxiety and that’s one of the reasons we are here, some come here for many other reasons but i think it all comes down to us not being happy with how we look and it’s a mental issue that we must all overcome.

i know looks are important and you need that initial attraction from girls for them to like you because it’s human nature, but i also think we sometimes deep it way to much here and you can go down a very deep and dark rabbit hole if you go the wrong direction

i think most users would benefit from just going out more and working on social skills that spending most of the time trying to change things you cannot genetically change, unless you want to get surgerys.

i mean let’s be real how many subhumans do you see on the street that have decent looking girls, a lot especially where i’m from in the UK it’s basically everywhere men are mogged by their partners.

the thing is we would see them and be like how the fuck has he done that then? but the guys themselves just don’t give a fuck, they are the ones that will approach girls and actually try to get their number/snap. These are the guys that end up fucking more girls than you even though you mog them. simply because they do not care and are not afraid of rejection from a girl

i have a friend who i mog so hard but he fucks htbs all the time he’s shown me their instas and all that shit and he is MTN and out of shape, yet his bc is like 10+ idk could be 20 and it’s because he isn’t autistic asf and just does not give a fuck, charisma is a thing i think a lot of people underestimate too if you’re charasmatic and confident in the way you look girls will sense that and be automatically attracted to you more than the average looksmaxer that sits on phone in the corner in a club that won’t approach anyone.

it sounds cliche and dumb asf but confidence is actually key in pulling foids, unless you have really been dealt bad cards and you are actually subhuman and a manlet then you are FINE you won’t struggle with girls as much as you think you would.

tldr: Get Real and get out in the world

Water

 

[Sanguinius]

Approaching girls is incel behaviour

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Cope those girls that “‘mog” your friend saw some attractive feature in them

 

[faceReflect]

i suffer with bad anxiety and have done for so many years and it’s robbed me if so many opportunities in my life so far honestly, but mostly with socialising and meeting girls, i think i speak for most of this forum when i say that anxiety is what holds us back in many aspects of life not even just with foids, and the fear of failure and rejection.

i think a lot of us on this forum are just actually big sufferers from social anxiety and that’s one of the reasons we are here, some come here for many other reasons but i think it all comes down to us not being happy with how we look and it’s a mental issue that we must all overcome.

i know looks are important and you need that initial attraction from girls for them to like you because it’s human nature, but i also think we sometimes deep it way to much here and you can go down a very deep and dark rabbit hole if you go the wrong direction

i think most users would benefit from just going out more and working on social skills that spending most of the time trying to change things you cannot genetically change, unless you want to get surgerys.

i mean let’s be real how many subhumans do you see on the street that have decent looking girls, a lot especially where i’m from in the UK it’s basically everywhere men are mogged by their partners.

the thing is we would see them and be like how the fuck has he done that then? but the guys themselves just don’t give a fuck, they are the ones that will approach girls and actually try to get their number/snap. These are the guys that end up fucking more girls than you even though you mog them. simply because they do not care and are not afraid of rejection from a girl

i have a friend who i mog so hard but he fucks htbs all the time he’s shown me their instas and all that shit and he is MTN and out of shape, yet his bc is like 10+ idk could be 20 and it’s because he isn’t autistic asf and just does not give a fuck, charisma is a thing i think a lot of people underestimate too if you’re charasmatic and confident in the way you look girls will sense that and be automatically attracted to you more than the average looksmaxer that sits on phone in the corner in a club that won’t approach anyone.

it sounds cliche and dumb asf but confidence is actually key in pulling foids, unless you have really been dealt bad cards and you are actually subhuman and a manlet then you are FINE you won’t struggle with girls as much as you think you would.

tldr: Get Real and get out in the world

high iq post needs to be seen by the goons on here

 

[Clown Show]

 

[shredmaxer]

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hahah i’m normal looking

 

[Soychadcell]

i suffer with bad anxiety and have done for so many years and it’s robbed me if so many opportunities in my life so far honestly, but mostly with socialising and meeting girls, i think i speak for most of this forum when i say that anxiety is what holds us back in many aspects of life not even just with foids, and the fear of failure and rejection.

i think a lot of us on this forum are just actually big sufferers from social anxiety and that’s one of the reasons we are here, some come here for many other reasons but i think it all comes down to us not being happy with how we look and it’s a mental issue that we must all overcome.

i know looks are important and you need that initial attraction from girls for them to like you because it’s human nature, but i also think we sometimes deep it way to much here and you can go down a very deep and dark rabbit hole if you go the wrong direction

i think most users would benefit from just going out more and working on social skills that spending most of the time trying to change things you cannot genetically change, unless you want to get surgerys.

i mean let’s be real how many subhumans do you see on the street that have decent looking girls, a lot especially where i’m from in the UK it’s basically everywhere men are mogged by their partners.

the thing is we would see them and be like how the fuck has he done that then? but the guys themselves just don’t give a fuck, they are the ones that will approach girls and actually try to get their number/snap. These are the guys that end up fucking more girls than you even though you mog them. simply because they do not care and are not afraid of rejection from a girl

i have a friend who i mog so hard but he fucks htbs all the time he’s shown me their instas and all that shit and he is MTN and out of shape, yet his bc is like 10+ idk could be 20 and it’s because he isn’t autistic asf and just does not give a fuck, charisma is a thing i think a lot of people underestimate too if you’re charasmatic and confident in the way you look girls will sense that and be automatically attracted to you more than the average looksmaxer that sits on phone in the corner in a club that won’t approach anyone.

it sounds cliche and dumb asf but confidence is actually key in pulling foids, unless you have really been dealt bad cards and you are actually subhuman and a manlet then you are FINE you won’t struggle with girls as much as you think you would.

tldr: Get Real and get out in the world

Just cold approach and try it enough

 

[enchanted_elixir]

let’s be real how many subhumans do you see on the street that have decent looking girls

They're cheating on him with Chad as we speak unless JBF

 

[shredmaxer]

They're cheating on him with Chad as we speak unless JBF

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