[LONG READ] Looksmaxxing, Purpose, and Confidence

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For 99% of us normies on this site, we don't have true chad potential without hardmaxing (surgery). The content of this thread does not apply to any subhumans (<4PSL) or actual turbomanlets (<5'7). This may sound slightly redpilled/bluepilled as opposed to blackpill but just hear me out. Normies may benefit greatly from reading this. Post your thoughts on this, I want a discussion.


A wild Chad with an incel personality is still going to slay regardless in accordance with the blackpill. A normie with an incel personality WILL NOT SLAY, under any circumstances. As a normie, you HAVE TO HAVE the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE. You need to be THAT nigga. Mentally, Chad is naturally extremely confident due to positive reinforcement since birth, that's nature. As a normie, the same type of positive reinforcement we get is much less compared to chad, or zero if your a low-tier normie. So the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE won't come so natural to us. Luckily, you can improve your confidence, but it's not easy.

Looksmaxxing is legit for normies, fix your failos and acquire halos. However, you niggas are obsessed with your looks. This is unhealthy on so many levels and your fucking your confidence up everytime you look at yourself, picking apart your PSL flaws in a negative manner. You HAVE to ACCEPT YOURSELF HOW YOU LOOK RIGHT NOW. Are you a low-tier normie? You have to tell yourself: 'OK cool. I'm a low-tier normie, and I'm completely fine with that'. Accept that you will not slay like Chad. Know your failos, and develop a softmaxxing routine to address them, and make that a daily habit. After it's a habit, keep doing it and eventually it will become a rhythm. This is why you automatically wipe your ass after taking a shit. Now you're looksmaxing with no thought. Examples of effective easy softmaxxing rhythms include (but not limited to): chewing falim gum with incisors, skincare routine, and hard mewing. Learn exactly what do to address your failos by browsing this forum for a day or two (JFL) - then create an efficient, effective routine - then turn it into a habit - then turn it into a rhythm. Now trust that in time, your PSL with inevitably increase if you are doing a legit daily routine. BUT, detach yourself from the outcome. You have to accept yourself, and say, 'Fuck it', whenever you look in the mirror and your PSL isn't changing due to the routine. Looksmaxxing takes time, stop attaching yourself to your flaws so much. Just fucking accept yourself man. Wake up every morning and do a 5 minute aspie PSL analysis, and to every one of your failos, say, 'Fuck it, I accept that shit'. To every halo, say, 'Fuck yeah'. Know that you can only ascend in this journey, but detach yourself from the outcome.

As a non-Chad, having purpose in life is the best cope by far, and I mean that in the best way possible. You can live a life with little sexual interaction, but with purpose, it becomes A FULFILLING EXPERIENCE. The thing is, you niggas have no fucking life, I swear. You don't go from normie-->Chad with softmaxxing, so why THE FUCK are you sulking about not being Chad? Nigga, if you accepted yourself, you would be the best version of yourself, no cap. Being a little bitch about not being Chad is insecure as fuck and stems from you taking your PSL failos so damn seriously. Your a normie, man, why are you so insecure? You bet your ass if I just described you, that this shit is being detected like a fucking x-ray scan by females you talk to through your body language, tonality, and microexpressions. They smell that shit nigga, a scent of insecurity and you have no chance as a normie. Yes, looks are important, but if you are a normie you need to PURPOSEMAX. For example, take this guy before finding his purpose:


Looks insecure as fuck even as I guy I can sniff it.

Now look at him after being on his purpose, legitimately:


This is what accepting yourself and having purpose does. Yes, he did softmaxxes to his failos (weird eyebrows, glasses, beard) but he seems like a completely upgraded version of himself internally. You can't not accept yourself, get surgery, then expect yourself to change internally. It just doesn't work like that. You must accept yourself first. Then any PSL improvements will feel way more fucking rewarding, but at the same time, you won't really give a shit. This is alpha. Now to find your purpose, watch his video, but find something that your willing to dedicate 100% of your time to if you felt like it, something you fucking love. Bet your fucking ass looksmaxing isn't something you love doing, it ain't your purpose on this Earth, so please stop browsing this forum 24/7.

Awesome, now you have a life nigga! You can't say confidence is cope, it is legit for a normie. Obviously not very useful for consistently slaying Stacy's but you will for sure have a high lay count with GOD LIKE confidence and +4PSL. Who knows, maybe this confidence will halo you enough to get lucky with a real Stacy one day. Anyway, having purpose while simultaneously accepting your PSL is the ultimate assurance to achieving genuine inner confidence. The type of confidence that can't be touched by anyone, you're ready to die at any moment confidence. A powerful 'supplement' which is necessary to get the best confidence out of yourself is to have no comfort zone. Literally, you have to expose yourself so much to the point where you really don't give a fuck, the comfort zone doesn't exist for you. You just fuck around and have fun in life, exuding positive energy. PSL obsession exudes negative energy. You can feel it man. Even an attractive person, who is PSL obsessed, or just negative in general, drains the fuck out of your energy in a conversation and leaves you saying, 'Damn, I feel shitty for some reason'. On the other spectrum, positive energy (basically confidence) is attractive to both genders. This is good because you will have better friendships and a bigger social circle, opening up opportunities to meet future slays which you would have never had access to. Always cut out the people who give you a negative vibe from your life, your best friends should have this confidence too, you will subconsciously boost each other up whenever you hang out.

Once you are at the level where you have the ultimate confidence, and just express legit positive energy 24/7 - talking to girls is the same as talking to anyone else and your quality of life will be much better. It's hard to explain, you just have to get to that level. Establish your looksmaxxing habits, make them a rhythm, accept yourself how you are, and you will become infinitely more attractive to both genders.

Also, while your confidence improves, since you have that rhythm going, your looks improve and your confidence gets boosted further. It's a synergistic effect. Looksmaxing by itself without confidence is unhealthy in my opinion, your confidence won't change to the potential it could.

Thanks for reading, feel free to criticize my thoughts, I would like to hear what you think.
Didn't proofread probably a few typos btw
 

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Thanks for the high effort post, but it's false imo. It's all about genetics.
 
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Thanks for the high effort post, but it's false imo. It's all about genetics.
I agree, but before finding his purpose that guy I used as an example probably had very little success with women. After he leveled himself up he probably opened up many options due to the aurora he shows. And if its all about genetics, you can't change your genetics. So you must accept yourself. See the logic?
 
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I agree, but before finding his purpose that guy I used as an example probably had very little success with women. After he leveled himself up he probably opened up many options due to the aurora he shows. And if its all about genetics, you can't change your genetics. So you must accept yourself. See the logic?
You accept yourself. Yes. But it doesn't leas to any results. You'll die rotting, being an invisible working slave to the winners of life. Leaving the world as a genetic dead end.
 
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Didn’t read cos 3.5psl, can I get away with that and read? I’m tall and white if that helps
 
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I don't think it's realistic to try to feel and exude positive confidence 24/7, we all have shitty moments at times.

Even if I get to a point of self-actualization and internal fulfillment, not being better looking than I currently am will always bother me.
 
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yes the idea that confidence doesn't matter and won't do shit is ridiculous

as a normie that's really what you have going for you that is striking to another person (instead of looks)
yeah chad might still fuck your bitch but at least you had your time with her
 
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DN RD BUT APPRECIATE EFFORT,KEEP GOING ON IT BRAH
 
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Didn’t read cos 3.5psl, can I get away with that and read? I’m tall and white if that helps
it's over for 3.99pslcels, read it again
 
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What is your purpose?
 
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Cant be positive when your life consists of negative experiences.
Mentalcels are super rare, most of the time its just genetics fault
 
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You accept yourself. Yes. But it doesn't leas to any results. You'll die rotting, being an invisible working slave to the winners of life. Leaving the world as a genetic dead end.
No. You accept yourself while looksmaxxing without thinking about it. Read what i wrote, you don't rot with my method to life
 
Didn’t read cos 3.5psl, can I get away with that and read? I’m tall and white if that helps
3.5 PSL is considered subhuman. I mean normie is not good to look at but isnt repulsive, a subhuman is repulsive to look at and not good looking.
 
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I don't think it's realistic to try to feel and exude positive confidence 24/7, we all have shitty moments at times.

Even if I get to a point of self-actualization and internal fulfillment, not being better looking than I currently am will always bother me.
Chad has shitty moments. But if your a normie (see this is why i excluded subhumans, its really over at that point sorry), you have to detach yourself from your looks while looksmaxing. It sounds dumb but just do the things you need to do to look your best, but accept yourself regardless. You won't live a happy life, people will sense your insecurity with that mindset
 
What is your purpose?
I'm 16 so I'm still looking for my purpose. I always feel fulfilled when I help people in need though, so becoming a doctor could be my purpose. It takes time though to find your true purpose.
 
yes the idea that confidence doesn't matter and won't do shit is ridiculous

as a normie that's really what you have going for you that is striking to another person (instead of looks)
yeah chad might still fuck your bitch but at least you had your time with her
Exactly g, we either compensate or get no play at all and its authentic, not fake bullshit
 
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Cant be positive when your life consists of negative experiences.
Mentalcels are super rare, most of the time its just genetics fault
Hmm I had a good childhood, but not many positive experiences throughout highschool. Doesn't stop me from being confident and authentic. You just gotta not care about anyone but yourself in a way, fuck what they did to you in the past, if you can't man up about past negative experiences and dont accept yourself thats beta as fuck and you aren't gonna be confident, leading to more negative experiences. Confidence is the spark of positive experiences, I'm living proof
 
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You are very young. I hope everything ends up going great for you. Good luck.
 
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at least you have a high t voice

shit i thought it was you on the video lmao
 
Chad has shitty moments. But if your a normie (see this is why i excluded subhumans, its really over at that point sorry), you have to detach yourself from your looks while looksmaxing. It sounds dumb but just do the things you need to do to look your best, but accept yourself regardless. You won't live a happy life, people will sense your insecurity with that mindset
I know what you mean, and I do do this just not all the time. The worst is when I go out in public and see that I'm not on the same level as some people height-wise. It just sucks knowing I could easily mog them if I was taller. Also we will always have insecurities, it's only natural for human beings to be tied to their defects. You just can't let them define you.
 
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I have hope i guess
 
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I know what you mean, and I do do this just not all the time. The worst is when I go out in public and see that I'm not on the same level as some people height-wise. It just sucks knowing I could easily mog them if I was taller. Also we will always have insecurities, it's only natural for human beings to be tied to their defects. You just can't let them define you.
You see? This is the average males confidence. You're not Chad. You have to build the ULTIMATE ALPHA CONFIDENCE. You're getting mogged? Fuck it! It's life, attractive people will mog everyone, just DON'T EVER BE INSECURE ABOUT IT. You have to not care, just accept life. Blackpill has taught us the truth, make the most of it by looksmaxing and becoming... THAT CONFIDENT NIGGA I KNOW YOU ARE
 
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dint read, but looksmax work and it get me pussy, end of story
 
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A lot of this thread is just a rehash of retarded motivational videos. You're not blackpilled; 'purpose', 'saying I accept myself' these are all memes.

Also you didn't go into hormones which nearly completely determine your confidence and inhibition, and didn't go into locationmaxxing to an area where you get better reaffirmation through lower PSL area average.
 
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My ultimate aim is spiritual and artistic excellence.
 
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A lot of this thread is just a rehash of retarded motivational videos. You're not blackpilled; 'purpose', 'saying I accept myself' these are all memes.

Also you didn't go into hormones which nearly completely determine your confidence and inhibition, and didn't go into locationmaxxing to an area where you get better reaffirmation through lower PSL area average.
So my example just injected T and got confidence. This is neurological shit that you can't fake with hormones. Locationmaxxing is beta as fuck your telling yourself your not good enough subconsiously, thats detrimental. Its like getting an escort because its easier. You have to love yourself, it sounds Karen as fuck, but you can't live a fulfilling life without these core ideas, you will always be stuck in the past and future, not the present moment
 
My ultimate aim is spiritual and artistic excellence.
Good for you ahah I can't see myself doing that for the rest of my life, it holds true that everyone has a different purpose
 
im like around 5'7 to 5'8
With that face and height the effects of confidence won't be crazy but it is certainly better than you being insecure
 
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For 99% of us normies on this site, we don't have true chad potential without hardmaxing (surgery). The content of this thread does not apply to any subhumans (<4PSL) or actual turbomanlets (<5'7). This may sound slightly redpilled/bluepilled as opposed to blackpill but just hear me out. Normies may benefit greatly from reading this. Post your thoughts on this, I want a discussion.


A wild Chad with an incel personality is still going to slay regardless in accordance with the blackpill. A normie with an incel personality WILL NOT SLAY, under any circumstances. As a normie, you HAVE TO HAVE the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE. You need to be THAT nigga. Mentally, Chad is naturally extremely confident due to positive reinforcement since birth, that's nature. As a normie, the same type of positive reinforcement we get is much less compared to chad, or zero if your a low-tier normie. So the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE won't come so natural to us. Luckily, you can improve your confidence, but it's not easy.

Looksmaxxing is legit for normies, fix your failos and acquire halos. However, you niggas are obsessed with your looks. This is unhealthy on so many levels and your fucking your confidence up everytime you look at yourself, picking apart your PSL flaws in a negative manner. You HAVE to ACCEPT YOURSELF HOW YOU LOOK RIGHT NOW. Are you a low-tier normie? You have to tell yourself: 'OK cool. I'm a low-tier normie, and I'm completely fine with that'. Accept that you will not slay like Chad. Know your failos, and develop a softmaxxing routine to address them, and make that a daily habit. After it's a habit, keep doing it and eventually it will become a rhythm. This is why you automatically wipe your ass after taking a shit. Now you're looksmaxing with no thought. Examples of effective easy softmaxxing rhythms include (but not limited to): chewing falim gum with incisors, skincare routine, and hard mewing. Learn exactly what do to address your failos by browsing this forum for a day or two (JFL) - then create an efficient, effective routine - then turn it into a habit - then turn it into a rhythm. Now trust that in time, your PSL with inevitably increase if you are doing a legit daily routine. BUT, detach yourself from the outcome. You have to accept yourself, and say, 'Fuck it', whenever you look in the mirror and your PSL isn't changing due to the routine. Looksmaxxing takes time, stop attaching yourself to your flaws so much. Just fucking accept yourself man. Wake up every morning and do a 5 minute aspie PSL analysis, and to every one of your failos, say, 'Fuck it, I accept that shit'. To every halo, say, 'Fuck yeah'. Know that you can only ascend in this journey, but detach yourself from the outcome.

As a non-Chad, having purpose in life is the best cope by far, and I mean that in the best way possible. You can live a life with little sexual interaction, but with purpose, it becomes A FULFILLING EXPERIENCE. The thing is, you niggas have no fucking life, I swear. You don't go from normie-->Chad with softmaxxing, so why THE FUCK are you sulking about not being Chad? Nigga, if you accepted yourself, you would be the best version of yourself, no cap. Being a little bitch about not being Chad is insecure as fuck and stems from you taking your PSL failos so damn seriously. Your a normie, man, why are you so insecure? You bet your ass if I just described you, that this shit is being detected like a fucking x-ray scan by females you talk to through your body language, tonality, and microexpressions. They smell that shit nigga, a scent of insecurity and you have no chance as a normie. Yes, looks are important, but if you are a normie you need to PURPOSEMAX. For example, take this guy before finding his purpose:


Looks insecure as fuck even as I guy I can sniff it.

Now look at him after being on his purpose, legitimately:


This is what accepting yourself and having purpose does. Yes, he did softmaxxes to his failos (weird eyebrows, glasses, beard) but he seems like a completely upgraded version of himself internally. You can't not accept yourself, get surgery, then expect yourself to change internally. It just doesn't work like that. You must accept yourself first. Then any PSL improvements will feel way more fucking rewarding, but at the same time, you won't really give a shit. This is alpha. Now to find your purpose, watch his video, but find something that your willing to dedicate 100% of your time to if you felt like it, something you fucking love. Bet your fucking ass looksmaxing isn't something you love doing, it ain't your purpose on this Earth, so please stop browsing this forum 24/7.

Awesome, now you have a life nigga! You can't say confidence is cope, it is legit for a normie. Obviously not very useful for consistently slaying Stacy's but you will for sure have a high lay count with GOD LIKE confidence and +4PSL. Who knows, maybe this confidence will halo you enough to get lucky with a real Stacy one day. Anyway, having purpose while simultaneously accepting your PSL is the ultimate assurance to achieving genuine inner confidence. The type of confidence that can't be touched by anyone, you're ready to die at any moment confidence. A powerful 'supplement' which is necessary to get the best confidence out of yourself is to have no comfort zone. Literally, you have to expose yourself so much to the point where you really don't give a fuck, the comfort zone doesn't exist for you. You just fuck around and have fun in life, exuding positive energy. PSL obsession exudes negative energy. You can feel it man. Even an attractive person, who is PSL obsessed, or just negative in general, drains the fuck out of your energy in a conversation and leaves you saying, 'Damn, I feel shitty for some reason'. On the other spectrum, positive energy (basically confidence) is attractive to both genders. This is good because you will have better friendships and a bigger social circle, opening up opportunities to meet future slays which you would have never had access to. Always cut out the people who give you a negative vibe from your life, your best friends should have this confidence too, you will subconsciously boost each other up whenever you hang out.

Once you are at the level where you have the ultimate confidence, and just express legit positive energy 24/7 - talking to girls is the same as talking to anyone else and your quality of life will be much better. It's hard to explain, you just have to get to that level. Establish your looksmaxxing habits, make them a rhythm, accept yourself how you are, and you will become infinitely more attractive to both genders.

Also, while your confidence improves, since you have that rhythm going, your looks improve and your confidence gets boosted further. It's a synergistic effect. Looksmaxing by itself without confidence is unhealthy in my opinion, your confidence won't change to the potential it could.

Thanks for reading, feel free to criticize my thoughts, I would like to hear what you think.
Didn't proofread probably a few typos btw


I have always held the belief that this dude purposely makes his voice sound more deeper and monotone than what it really is.
He tries to give off the vibe that he's Morgan Freeman but it comes off as fake and put on. Idk a lot of these self help and improvement YouTubers are legit frauds like those mewing gurus with genetically blessed jawlines shilling products and techniques for clout or money.
 
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I have always held the belief that this dude purposely makes his voice sound more deeper and monotone than what it really is.
He tries to give off the vibe that he's Morgan Freeman but it comes off as fake and put on. Idk a lot of these self help and improvement YouTubers are legit frauds like those mewing gurus with genetically blessed jawlines shilling products and techniques for clout or money.
Sounds more natural in the after video to me, sounds like what his diaphragm voice is. There are alot of YouTuber frauds but I think this guys change was legit
 
Cant be positive when your life consists of negative experiences.
Mentalcels are super rare, most of the time its just genetics fault
 
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Purpose + looksmaxxing --> more positive experiences than before --> confidence
 
good high effort thread bro. @aanghel mogs
 
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High IQ, legit thread
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Looks matter more but confidence still matters, some people here will never accept that. They just autistically focus on outliers and absolutes.
 
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Man I look like a 15year old at 22years old. Its over for me. If I act self-assured or confident (positively, not tryna mog people), people just passive-aggressively put me back in my place most of the time, and once I got attacked physically.

When your short, framecel, and ugly, you have no chance at a social life with these Normies. They have the brains of monkeys still.
 
Disclaimer:
For 99% of us normies on this site, we don't have true chad potential without hardmaxing (surgery). The content of this thread does not apply to any subhumans (<4PSL) or actual turbomanlets (<5'7). This may sound slightly redpilled/bluepilled as opposed to blackpill but just hear me out. Normies may benefit greatly from reading this. Post your thoughts on this, I want a discussion.


A wild Chad with an incel personality is still going to slay regardless in accordance with the blackpill. A normie with an incel personality WILL NOT SLAY, under any circumstances. As a normie, you HAVE TO HAVE the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE. You need to be THAT nigga. Mentally, Chad is naturally extremely confident due to positive reinforcement since birth, that's nature. As a normie, the same type of positive reinforcement we get is much less compared to chad, or zero if your a low-tier normie. So the ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE won't come so natural to us. Luckily, you can improve your confidence, but it's not easy.

Looksmaxxing is legit for normies, fix your failos and acquire halos. However, you niggas are obsessed with your looks. This is unhealthy on so many levels and your fucking your confidence up everytime you look at yourself, picking apart your PSL flaws in a negative manner. You HAVE to ACCEPT YOURSELF HOW YOU LOOK RIGHT NOW. Are you a low-tier normie? You have to tell yourself: 'OK cool. I'm a low-tier normie, and I'm completely fine with that'. Accept that you will not slay like Chad. Know your failos, and develop a softmaxxing routine to address them, and make that a daily habit. After it's a habit, keep doing it and eventually it will become a rhythm. This is why you automatically wipe your ass after taking a shit. Now you're looksmaxing with no thought. Examples of effective easy softmaxxing rhythms include (but not limited to): chewing falim gum with incisors, skincare routine, and hard mewing. Learn exactly what do to address your failos by browsing this forum for a day or two (JFL) - then create an efficient, effective routine - then turn it into a habit - then turn it into a rhythm. Now trust that in time, your PSL with inevitably increase if you are doing a legit daily routine. BUT, detach yourself from the outcome. You have to accept yourself, and say, 'Fuck it', whenever you look in the mirror and your PSL isn't changing due to the routine. Looksmaxxing takes time, stop attaching yourself to your flaws so much. Just fucking accept yourself man. Wake up every morning and do a 5 minute aspie PSL analysis, and to every one of your failos, say, 'Fuck it, I accept that shit'. To every halo, say, 'Fuck yeah'. Know that you can only ascend in this journey, but detach yourself from the outcome.

As a non-Chad, having purpose in life is the best cope by far, and I mean that in the best way possible. You can live a life with little sexual interaction, but with purpose, it becomes A FULFILLING EXPERIENCE. The thing is, you niggas have no fucking life, I swear. You don't go from normie-->Chad with softmaxxing, so why THE FUCK are you sulking about not being Chad? Nigga, if you accepted yourself, you would be the best version of yourself, no cap. Being a little bitch about not being Chad is insecure as fuck and stems from you taking your PSL failos so damn seriously. Your a normie, man, why are you so insecure? You bet your ass if I just described you, that this shit is being detected like a fucking x-ray scan by females you talk to through your body language, tonality, and microexpressions. They smell that shit nigga, a scent of insecurity and you have no chance as a normie. Yes, looks are important, but if you are a normie you need to PURPOSEMAX. For example, take this guy before finding his purpose:


Looks insecure as fuck even as I guy I can sniff it.

Now look at him after being on his purpose, legitimately:


This is what accepting yourself and having purpose does. Yes, he did softmaxxes to his failos (weird eyebrows, glasses, beard) but he seems like a completely upgraded version of himself internally. You can't not accept yourself, get surgery, then expect yourself to change internally. It just doesn't work like that. You must accept yourself first. Then any PSL improvements will feel way more fucking rewarding, but at the same time, you won't really give a shit. This is alpha. Now to find your purpose, watch his video, but find something that your willing to dedicate 100% of your time to if you felt like it, something you fucking love. Bet your fucking ass looksmaxing isn't something you love doing, it ain't your purpose on this Earth, so please stop browsing this forum 24/7.

Awesome, now you have a life nigga! You can't say confidence is cope, it is legit for a normie. Obviously not very useful for consistently slaying Stacy's but you will for sure have a high lay count with GOD LIKE confidence and +4PSL. Who knows, maybe this confidence will halo you enough to get lucky with a real Stacy one day. Anyway, having purpose while simultaneously accepting your PSL is the ultimate assurance to achieving genuine inner confidence. The type of confidence that can't be touched by anyone, you're ready to die at any moment confidence. A powerful 'supplement' which is necessary to get the best confidence out of yourself is to have no comfort zone. Literally, you have to expose yourself so much to the point where you really don't give a fuck, the comfort zone doesn't exist for you. You just fuck around and have fun in life, exuding positive energy. PSL obsession exudes negative energy. You can feel it man. Even an attractive person, who is PSL obsessed, or just negative in general, drains the fuck out of your energy in a conversation and leaves you saying, 'Damn, I feel shitty for some reason'. On the other spectrum, positive energy (basically confidence) is attractive to both genders. This is good because you will have better friendships and a bigger social circle, opening up opportunities to meet future slays which you would have never had access to. Always cut out the people who give you a negative vibe from your life, your best friends should have this confidence too, you will subconsciously boost each other up whenever you hang out.

Once you are at the level where you have the ultimate confidence, and just express legit positive energy 24/7 - talking to girls is the same as talking to anyone else and your quality of life will be much better. It's hard to explain, you just have to get to that level. Establish your looksmaxxing habits, make them a rhythm, accept yourself how you are, and you will become infinitely more attractive to both genders.

Also, while your confidence improves, since you have that rhythm going, your looks improve and your confidence gets boosted further. It's a synergistic effect. Looksmaxing by itself without confidence is unhealthy in my opinion, your confidence won't change to the potential it could.

Thanks for reading, feel free to criticize my thoughts, I would like to hear what you think.
Didn't proofread probably a few typos btw

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Man I look like a 15year old at 22years old. Its over for me. If I act self-assured or confident (positively, not tryna mog people), people just passive-aggressively put me back in my place most of the time, and once I got attacked physically.

When your short, framecel, and ugly, you have no chance at a social life with these Normies. They have the brains of monkeys still.
How short are we talking. I can see why actual manlets are ignored by if you are average or even slightly below average normies will talk to you 100%
 
Man I look like a 15year old at 22years old. Its over for me. If I act self-assured or confident (positively, not tryna mog people), people just passive-aggressively put me back in my place most of the time, and once I got attacked physically.

When your short, framecel, and ugly, you have no chance at a social life with these Normies. They have the brains of monkeys still.
also you shouldn't 'act' you have to genuinly feel confident, like really proper confidence 24/7. I can't speak on reaching that level but I always had this type of confidence despite being average af in chadstralia as an egyptian
 
also you shouldn't 'act' you have to genuinly feel confident, like really proper confidence 24/7. I can't speak on reaching that level but I always had this type of confidence despite being average af in chadstralia as an egyptian

I used to be genuinely NT and happy, popular. Then around 15 everybody was getting bigger than me but I stopped growing (both height and frame), my face became recessed and bottom 10% tier, with low masculinity. My only saving grace is good pheno (swarthy med), bt it wasn't enough I guess.

Im 5ft7 barefoot. 130pounds, cant gain weight even though I eat like a horse, and I'm actually extremely athletic, very cut and lean, just not built to carry mass.

And yeah I was never good looking either, I was very content being average faced and height/frame.
 
I used to be genuinely NT and happy, popular. Then around 15 everybody was getting bigger than me but I stopped growing (both height and frame), my face became recessed and bottom 10% tier, with low masculinity. My only saving grace is good pheno (swarthy med), bt it wasn't enough I guess.

Im 5ft7 barefoot. 130pounds, cant gain weight even though I eat like a horse, and I'm actually extremely athletic, very cut and lean, just not built to carry mass.

And yeah I was never good looking either, I was very content being average faced and height/frame.
Lol i have many friends around that height and they are very social despite being small its probably not your looks unless you are trying to get into a chad social circle
 

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