Mental health max, let me know if this makes you feel better after doing it

[Deleted member 3323]

Whatever you're insecure about, tell yourself "I don't like that what I see in the mirror, or how I look but I accept the reality of it, what is true is true." Accepting yourself isn't accepting how you look, you dont have to like what you see, its accepting the reality of what is true. Just calmly accept the reality, you dont have to like it, just accept it and possibly seek ways to improve.


I find that accepting the reality of things consciously makes the feeling of insecurity go away and I focus on how to improve my situation.

 

[Deleted member 756]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

 

[Deleted member 3323]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

Then they're deluding themselves or are simply confident in the way they look. If the former then theyre just harming their mental health more than anything.

 

[Deleted member 7776]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

 

[Deleted member 756]

Then they're deluding themselves or are simply confident in the way they look. If the former then theyre just harming their mental health more than anything.

thats why they're incel tbh

 

[Kenickie]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

only TRUE way to know is get a model portfolio done and see people's response on social media to the pictures

 

[Mouthbreath]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

rentfree

 

[Deleted member 3323]

thats why they're incel tbh

That's besides the point of my post anyways. Reality is perception and if you know that you're ugly and still claim to be handsome you're only harming your own self esteem further. But if they truly believe they're attractive then that's their reality and their is nothing wrong with that.

 

[Deleted member 756]

only TRUE way to know is get a model portfolio done and see people's response on social media to the pictures

or whether or not they're virgin for example

 

[Deleted member 756]

rentfree

I don't know who you are

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Whatever you're insecure about, tell yourself "I don't like that what I see in the mirror, or how I look but I accept the reality of it, what is true is true." Accepting yourself isn't accepting how you look, you dont have to like what you see, its accepting the reality of what is true. Just calmly accept the reality, you dont have to like it, just accept it and possibly seek ways to improve.


I find that accepting the reality of things consciously makes the feeling of insecurity go away and I focus on how to improve my situation.

What if I'm not insecure about things like that?
I'm insecure over the fact that my living security is hanging on uncertainty and I might be living on the street tomorrow. Or insecure over the fact that I'll be khhv for the rest of my miserable lifetime.
Can I just tell something to myself about these?

 

[Deleted member 756]

That's besides the point of my post anyways. Reality is perception and if you know that you're ugly and still claim to be handsome you're only harming your own self esteem further. But if they truly believe they're attractive then that's their reality and their is nothing wrong with that.

You're right but you can truly believe you're attractive and still be unattractive. Solipsism can only get you so far

 

[Mouthbreath]

I don't know who you are

 

[Deleted member 756]

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that your dad bro?

 

[Kenickie]

or whether or not they're virgin for example

Lots of things contribute to that including dysfunctional households and age and environment

 

[Mouthbreath]

that your dad bro?

you dont recognice your estrogenic lesbian face anymore?

 

[Deleted member 756]

you dont recognice your estrogenic lesbian face anymore?

I have a solid jaw and good eye area though so thats not me

 

[Deleted member 3323]

What if I'm not insecure about things like that?
I'm insecure over the fact that my living security is hanging on uncertainty and I might be living on the street tomorrow. Or insecure over the fact that I'll be khhv for the rest of my miserable lifetime.
Can I just tell something to myself about these?

Can you accept the fact that you're khhv and you might be living on the streets?


You must accept your reality before you can change it, if you can't even accept who you are and your situation how can any change be made?

 

[Mouthbreath]

I have a solid jaw and good eye area though so thats not me

you're "solid" indeed

 

[Deleted member 756]

you're "solid" indeed

I don't get why you are so obsessed with me
but one day you'll realise sex isn't everything and there's no need to be jealous of someone who's had much more sex than you will ever have

 

[Deleted member 756]

Lots of things contribute to that including dysfunctional households and age and environment

These factors can be rectified very quickly though imo

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Can you accept the fact that you're khhv and you might be living on the streets?

I don't know how not to accept it.
It is the real actual reality.
I don't know my insecurities... Like. I'm afraid of losing hair, but not like I'm losing them.
Can I just have no insecurities? I just don't care about most of anything anymore.

 

[BigBoy]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

You look hot in your avi

 

[Mouthbreath]

I don't get why you are so obsessed with me
but one day you'll realise sex isn't everything and there's no need to be jealous of someone who's had much more sex than you will ever have

I'd rather kill myself than fuck those whales you had sex with

 

[Deleted member 3323]

I don't know how not to accept it.
It is the real actual reality.
I don't know my insecurities... Like. I'm afraid of losing hair, but not like I'm losing them.
Can I just have no insecurities? I just don't care about most of anything anymore.

You must really think consciously and rationally about these things, are they really insecurities or just irrational anxieties? Are you actually going bald for example or you just think you are?

If they are real insecurities you must accept your situation now, realize it's real, no denying it, no sugar coating it and only then change can be made.

 

[Deleted member 756]

I'd rather kill myself than fuck those whales you had sex with

But you won't even be able to fuck those whales even after "ascending" so..

 

[Mouthbreath]

But you won't even be able to fuck those whales even after "ascending" so..

one thing is for sure, if I will ever meet you irl I will kill you on sight you annoying fat fuck

 

[Deleted member 756]

one thing is for sure, if I will ever meet you irl I will kill you on sight you annoying fat fuck

I am 7 inches taller than you though

 

[Deleted member 756]

You look hot in your avi

really?

 

[mogstar]

the trouble is that most people on here think they're good looking whereas in reality they're not

Nah I disagree, once you make an account on looksmax.me you realized that u were never good looking to begin with

 

[Deleted member 756]

Nah I disagree, once you make an account on looksmax.me you realized that u were never good looking to begin with

most people here overrate themselves a lot

 

[BigBoy]

really?

Yes baby now lemme smash

 

[Mouthbreath]

I am 7 inches taller than you though

no you aren't, and dont think your height and fat will be of any use

 

[Deleted member 10536]

You must really think consciously and rationally about these things, are they really insecurities or just irrational anxieties? Are you actually going bald for example or you just think you are?

If they are real insecurities you must accept your situation now, realize it's real, no denying it, no sugar coating it and only then change can be made.

Well, that's what I'm saying. I don't have anything. I feel like it's bad, because I don't care anymore about things, they're not bothering me, even though they should.
I'm not going bald, I'd be pretty upset if I did though, I really hope am not going to.
I guess I'd be insecure to be nude in front of a random person that I don't know?
Like I can't think of any insecurities really.
On the other hand I don't do particularly well talking with strangers or starting conversations with strangers. But I don't know why. Is it because of some sort of insecurity? I don't know, but I don't think so. I don't really understand. I also noticed that I started going "blank" when talking with people, as if my brains shutdown and I just melt away, in a way.
Which is sort of sad, because then it's difficult to be engaging and interactive with a person, when you don't give a fuck about the other person, even though you want to. AAH

 

[Deleted member 756]

no you aren't, and dont think your height and fat will be of any use

you're 5'8 and I am 6'3
Why are you so obsessed with me?

 

[Mouthbreath]

you're 5'8 and I am 6'3
Why are you so obsessed with me?

I'm not, your elephant brain has mixed something up there.

 

[Deleted member 756]

I'm not, your elephant brain has mixed something up there.

Why are you so obsessed with me?

 

[Deleted member 756]

Yes baby now lemme smash

lol when?

 

[Entschuldigung]

 

[BigBoy]

lol when?

Sunday night bbg

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

i've already done this. recommend it.

 

[sandcelmuttcel]

btw only when you accept something's wrong you can improve.