No idea why I’m so disrespected

[SntDomistheRealChad]

Title. There’s two possibilities:

A. I’m a shy incel and people are disrespecting because I’m not respectable

B. I’m better looking than them by a lot, and so they are insecure and aim to bring me down or don’t feel the need to be nice as people naturally feel obligated to be nice to normies to not look like a dick.

A and B.

Life Story Time (TLDR just go to the bottom)

I’ve always been very attractive, intelligent, and good at sports. I have noticed people trying to compete and I honestly just feel like getting along with people now but I face more disrespect than your average normie even though I have higher class tastes in humour, clothing, and life in general. I’m not snobby about it, it’s just what I gravitate towards so it’s easier for me.

Many guys will compete with me and try to subtly disrespect and “gang up” on me in order to mog me. If I don’t let it happen they just shy away and refuse to try. But wtf is the point of having friends then? Just to prove I’m better? Seems useless to me.

The primary problem:

Although men do these things often (Attractive men do not do this and I seem to get along better with them than ugly ones) women often don’t even show signs of interest in me so I’m facing hate for no reason. You would think that the women would find this behaviour unattractive and not go for the hater but they do regardless and so I’m faced with hate from both sides (males and females). The only people I get respect from are good looking men and extremely attractive females (Top 1% of females). I think attractive people may just be nicer in general and that’s why.

I know people who are lame as fuck and boring as hell and still get respect. So why would this not apply to me if option A is the truth? I often have my ideas sidelined in professional settings as well even though they are good ideas and it seems like I have to become friends with the ugly fucks regardless of what I feel of them so I’m cucked essentially.

If women were respectful in response to the traits that men are insecure around me about it would equalize and all would be well, however females often don’t give a fuck about good looks, intelligence, work ethic, etc. So I’m essentially cucked.

Or I’m actually a lame incel and this is all cope. But I’ve been called good looking/hot many times although there has been minimal fruits from it.

 

[_MVP_]

Ur ugly and Low iq

 

[Kamui]

You’re just ugly lol

 

[SntDomistheRealChad]

You’re just ugly lol

Nah I’m good looking srs, not intimidating tho

 

[Kamui]

Nah I’m good looking srs, not intimidating tho

You are ugly point blank lol

Stop deluding yourself

Ugly ass nigga

 

[BowlCutMogger]

Nah I’m good looking srs

 

[Primalsplit]

Who the fuck cares?

 

[Nick.Harte]

Ur ugly and Low iq

Sad truth

 

[Maalik]

most likely ugly + bad social skills

welcome to the club

 

[ReinhardRacist]

 

[FortniteGod]

Since women don’t show interest in you it’s option A

 

[bourgeoizyzz]

You probably are prone to talking too much and going incoherent directions

 

[kanderior]

Being non-NT is enough to make people instinctively dislike you. Unless you're actually truecel I doubt looks are the cause in most cases.

 

[socialcel]

Being non-NT is enough to make people instinctively dislike you.

Wait actually?

 

[kanderior]

Wait actually?

I was bullied a lot in hs and have always had a hard time making or maintaining friendships, people usually eventually distance themselves from me. And I generally have always felt that people were negatively predisposed towards me. I won't post myself but believe me, my looks are not the problem, way uglier guys than me were popular in hs or have good social lives. NT is law. Yeah if you're gl you can be a bit less NT but even that has its limits.

 

[socialcel]

NT is law.

so jova.

non NTness stems from subhumanity/bad treatment in childhood tho, at least imo

 

[Whatashame]

Do u look feminine? Or not very masculine

 

[WeiWei]

You're prolly jsut ugly. As an ugly man the only way to win is to moneymaxx and dark triad maxx, to fuck others over including women and make them disappear if they need disappearing in GTA Online

 

[BigBiceps]

Title. There’s two possibilities:

A. I’m a shy incel and people are disrespecting because I’m not respectable

B. I’m better looking than them by a lot, and so they are insecure and aim to bring me down or don’t feel the need to be nice as people naturally feel obligated to be nice to normies to not look like a dick.

A and B.

Life Story Time (TLDR just go to the bottom)

I’ve always been very attractive, intelligent, and good at sports. I have noticed people trying to compete and I honestly just feel like getting along with people now but I face more disrespect than your average normie even though I have higher class tastes in humour, clothing, and life in general. I’m not snobby about it, it’s just what I gravitate towards so it’s easier for me.

Many guys will compete with me and try to subtly disrespect and “gang up” on me in order to mog me. If I don’t let it happen they just shy away and refuse to try. But wtf is the point of having friends then? Just to prove I’m better? Seems useless to me.

The primary problem:

Although men do these things often (Attractive men do not do this and I seem to get along better with them than ugly ones) women often don’t even show signs of interest in me so I’m facing hate for no reason. You would think that the women would find this behaviour unattractive and not go for the hater but they do regardless and so I’m faced with hate from both sides (males and females). The only people I get respect from are good looking men and extremely attractive females (Top 1% of females). I think attractive people may just be nicer in general and that’s why.

I know people who are lame as fuck and boring as hell and still get respect. So why would this not apply to me if option A is the truth? I often have my ideas sidelined in professional settings as well even though they are good ideas and it seems like I have to become friends with the ugly fucks regardless of what I feel of them so I’m cucked essentially.

If women were respectful in response to the traits that men are insecure around me about it would equalize and all would be well, however females often don’t give a fuck about good looks, intelligence, work ethic, etc. So I’m essentially cucked.

Or I’m actually a lame incel and this is all cope. But I’ve been called good looking/hot many times although there has been minimal fruits from it.

If what you say is true, it's because men are jealous and you may come off as a little insecure, that is, like a easy prey. There's no magic pill other than perhaps quitting bad habits and starting good ones, for example stop things that would make you ashamed of unconsciously. Like pornography. Become the man you'd wish your son to be, other than that you just have to go through the fire. Your skin will thicken and you will give less and less fucks, perhaps you'll even learn to demand respect.

 

[New Poster]

Being non-NT is enough to make people instinctively dislike you. Unless you're actually truecel I doubt looks are the cause in most cases.

yeah, people ignore ugly people. If you're actively hated then it's how you act.

 

[HardmaxxOrDeath]

You are ugly point blank lol

Stop deluding yourself

Title. There’s two possibilities:

A. I’m a shy incel and people are disrespecting because I’m not respectable

B. I’m better looking than them by a lot, and so they are insecure and aim to bring me down or don’t feel the need to be nice as people naturally feel obligated to be nice to normies to not look like a dick.

A and B.

Life Story Time (TLDR just go to the bottom)

I’ve always been very attractive, intelligent, and good at sports. I have noticed people trying to compete and I honestly just feel like getting along with people now but I face more disrespect than your average normie even though I have higher class tastes in humour, clothing, and life in general. I’m not snobby about it, it’s just what I gravitate towards so it’s easier for me.

Many guys will compete with me and try to subtly disrespect and “gang up” on me in order to mog me. If I don’t let it happen they just shy away and refuse to try. But wtf is the point of having friends then? Just to prove I’m better? Seems useless to me.

The primary problem:

Although men do these things often (Attractive men do not do this and I seem to get along better with them than ugly ones) women often don’t even show signs of interest in me so I’m facing hate for no reason. You would think that the women would find this behaviour unattractive and not go for the hater but they do regardless and so I’m faced with hate from both sides (males and females). The only people I get respect from are good looking men and extremely attractive females (Top 1% of females). I think attractive people may just be nicer in general and that’s why.

I know people who are lame as fuck and boring as hell and still get respect. So why would this not apply to me if option A is the truth? I often have my ideas sidelined in professional settings as well even though they are good ideas and it seems like I have to become friends with the ugly fucks regardless of what I feel of them so I’m cucked essentially.

If women were respectful in response to the traits that men are insecure around me about it would equalize and all would be well, however females often don’t give a fuck about good looks, intelligence, work ethic, etc. So I’m essentially cucked.

Or I’m actually a lame incel and this is all cope. But I’ve been called good looking/hot many times although there has been minimal fruits from it.

your either a cutecel framelet or your ugly and short

 

[Mastermind]

I’ve always been very attractive

women often don’t even show signs of interest in me

Cognitive dissonance is the problem

 

[Mastermind]

Being non-NT is enough to make people instinctively dislike you.

This is true but women will still give you IOIs and gravitate towards you if you are GL

 

[flippasav]

Title. There’s two possibilities:

A. I’m a shy incel and people are disrespecting because I’m not respectable

B. I’m better looking than them by a lot, and so they are insecure and aim to bring me down or don’t feel the need to be nice as people naturally feel obligated to be nice to normies to not look like a dick.

A and B.

Life Story Time (TLDR just go to the bottom)

I’ve always been very attractive, intelligent, and good at sports. I have noticed people trying to compete and I honestly just feel like getting along with people now but I face more disrespect than your average normie even though I have higher class tastes in humour, clothing, and life in general. I’m not snobby about it, it’s just what I gravitate towards so it’s easier for me.

Many guys will compete with me and try to subtly disrespect and “gang up” on me in order to mog me. If I don’t let it happen they just shy away and refuse to try. But wtf is the point of having friends then? Just to prove I’m better? Seems useless to me.

The primary problem:

Although men do these things often (Attractive men do not do this and I seem to get along better with them than ugly ones) women often don’t even show signs of interest in me so I’m facing hate for no reason. You would think that the women would find this behaviour unattractive and not go for the hater but they do regardless and so I’m faced with hate from both sides (males and females). The only people I get respect from are good looking men and extremely attractive females (Top 1% of females). I think attractive people may just be nicer in general and that’s why.

I know people who are lame as fuck and boring as hell and still get respect. So why would this not apply to me if option A is the truth? I often have my ideas sidelined in professional settings as well even though they are good ideas and it seems like I have to become friends with the ugly fucks regardless of what I feel of them so I’m cucked essentially.

If women were respectful in response to the traits that men are insecure around me about it would equalize and all would be well, however females often don’t give a fuck about good looks, intelligence, work ethic, etc. So I’m essentially cucked.

Or I’m actually a lame incel and this is all cope. But I’ve been called good looking/hot many times although there has been minimal fruits from it.

I will never apologise for who I am

 

[SntDomistheRealChad]

Title. There’s two possibilities:

A. I’m a shy incel and people are disrespecting because I’m not respectable

B. I’m better looking than them by a lot, and so they are insecure and aim to bring me down or don’t feel the need to be nice as people naturally feel obligated to be nice to normies to not look like a dick.

A and B.

Life Story Time (TLDR just go to the bottom)

I’ve always been very attractive, intelligent, and good at sports. I have noticed people trying to compete and I honestly just feel like getting along with people now but I face more disrespect than your average normie even though I have higher class tastes in humour, clothing, and life in general. I’m not snobby about it, it’s just what I gravitate towards so it’s easier for me.

Many guys will compete with me and try to subtly disrespect and “gang up” on me in order to mog me. If I don’t let it happen they just shy away and refuse to try. But wtf is the point of having friends then? Just to prove I’m better? Seems useless to me.

The primary problem:

Although men do these things often (Attractive men do not do this and I seem to get along better with them than ugly ones) women often don’t even show signs of interest in me so I’m facing hate for no reason. You would think that the women would find this behaviour unattractive and not go for the hater but they do regardless and so I’m faced with hate from both sides (males and females). The only people I get respect from are good looking men and extremely attractive females (Top 1% of females). I think attractive people may just be nicer in general and that’s why.

I know people who are lame as fuck and boring as hell and still get respect. So why would this not apply to me if option A is the truth? I often have my ideas sidelined in professional settings as well even though they are good ideas and it seems like I have to become friends with the ugly fucks regardless of what I feel of them so I’m cucked essentially.

If women were respectful in response to the traits that men are insecure around me about it would equalize and all would be well, however females often don’t give a fuck about good looks, intelligence, work ethic, etc. So I’m essentially cucked.

Or I’m actually a lame incel and this is all cope. But I’ve been called good looking/hot many times although there has been minimal fruits from it.

I found out the answer today. Basically I don’t take the time to explain my thoughts. I have really good ideas but don’t explain them leaving me looking stupid and careless. Talked with a coworker/friend today about it after he was a bit annoyed about something I was working on and he explained it clearly. The place I work is a “pissing contest” a lot of the time and going against the grain is not respected AT ALL. Basically they think respect must be earned and will not listen to your ideas until you put the work in.

As for friends it used to just be low confidence and “allowing” disrespect. I was also told by the coworker that I don’t get it easy either because I’m white and the immigrants get passes when they’re stupid.