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I masked so much, that every normies thinks I'm NT.
But It works.
NT maxxing is exactly the same for you as being an actor.
You need to fake it till you make it and act a certain way.
Intro
The neurotypical spectrum refers to individuals who do not have neurological differences, such as autism, ADHD, or other developmental disorders. Those who fall outside this spectrum might face challenges in social situations, leading them to seek ways to blend in more effectively.
Understanding Neurotypical Behavior
To appear more neurotypical, you need to understand the typical behaviors associated with neurotypicality. These behaviors can include non-verbal cues ( maintaining appropriate eye contact, using appropriate gestures), conversational patterns (taking turns, interpreting social cues), and adhering to established social norms (respecting personal space, displaying appropriate emotional reactions).
Improving Social Communication
Active Listening: Engage in active listening by maintaining eye contact, nodding, and paraphrasing to demonstrate understanding and interest in conversations. This is water but very legit.
Appropriate Responses: Practice responding to emotional expressions and social cues with appropriate reactions, such as laughter, empathy, or concern, with some balance.
Learning Social Norm
Observational Learning: Observe nt people in social settings to learn how they interact, respond, and adapt to various situations.
I realize they all have the same type of interest : basic movies, basic sports, popular music, basic fashion brands, etc.
It's so easy to spot once you get it. When you discuss about theses topic, generally NT people will enjoy it.
I watch normies YouTube content every day. Watch NT YouTubers, and you can clearly see a pattern in their behaviors.
YouTube is a good database to analyze how NT people interact.
Managing Emotional Expressions Emotional Regulation
Learn to manage emotions effectively, avoiding excessive displays of emotion and maintaining composure in various situations.
Facial Expressions: Practice displaying appropriate facial expressions to match emotional states in specific social contexts. Actors do this every time.
You need to be an actor and larp emotion with a degree of balance.
Tricking Non-Verbal Communication
Eye Contact: Maintain appropriate eye contact without staring or avoiding eye contact altogether
Gestures: Use natural and appropriate gestures that complement verbal communication.
Stealing Neurotypical Language Patterns
Tone and Volume: Pay attention to tone and volume during speech to match the conversational context.
Non-Literal Language: Understand and use sarcasm, metaphors, and idioms appropriately.
LARP Empathy
Empathic Listening: Develop empathetic listening skills by acknowledging others' feelings and experiences.
Compassionate Responses: Respond with kindness and understanding when others share their emotions. NT people like to be understood.
Show them you understand their feelings, even if you don't.
Embracing Neurodiversity
Self-Acceptance: Recognize and embrace your own neurodiversity, as authenticity is vital for building meaningful connections for LTR. However, do not reveal your situation to your new friends/new girlfriend.
Outing your neurodiversity is only during your LTR.
Conclusion
Appearing more NT requires some irl LARP skill.
You will need to constantly mask and act in a specific way. But it's definitively worth the price.
But It works.
NT maxxing is exactly the same for you as being an actor.
You need to fake it till you make it and act a certain way.
Intro
The neurotypical spectrum refers to individuals who do not have neurological differences, such as autism, ADHD, or other developmental disorders. Those who fall outside this spectrum might face challenges in social situations, leading them to seek ways to blend in more effectively.
Understanding Neurotypical Behavior
To appear more neurotypical, you need to understand the typical behaviors associated with neurotypicality. These behaviors can include non-verbal cues ( maintaining appropriate eye contact, using appropriate gestures), conversational patterns (taking turns, interpreting social cues), and adhering to established social norms (respecting personal space, displaying appropriate emotional reactions).
Improving Social Communication
Active Listening: Engage in active listening by maintaining eye contact, nodding, and paraphrasing to demonstrate understanding and interest in conversations. This is water but very legit.
Appropriate Responses: Practice responding to emotional expressions and social cues with appropriate reactions, such as laughter, empathy, or concern, with some balance.
Learning Social Norm
Observational Learning: Observe nt people in social settings to learn how they interact, respond, and adapt to various situations.
I realize they all have the same type of interest : basic movies, basic sports, popular music, basic fashion brands, etc.
It's so easy to spot once you get it. When you discuss about theses topic, generally NT people will enjoy it.
I watch normies YouTube content every day. Watch NT YouTubers, and you can clearly see a pattern in their behaviors.
YouTube is a good database to analyze how NT people interact.
Managing Emotional Expressions Emotional Regulation
Learn to manage emotions effectively, avoiding excessive displays of emotion and maintaining composure in various situations.
Facial Expressions: Practice displaying appropriate facial expressions to match emotional states in specific social contexts. Actors do this every time.
You need to be an actor and larp emotion with a degree of balance.
Tricking Non-Verbal Communication
Eye Contact: Maintain appropriate eye contact without staring or avoiding eye contact altogether
Gestures: Use natural and appropriate gestures that complement verbal communication.
Stealing Neurotypical Language Patterns
Tone and Volume: Pay attention to tone and volume during speech to match the conversational context.
Non-Literal Language: Understand and use sarcasm, metaphors, and idioms appropriately.
LARP Empathy
Empathic Listening: Develop empathetic listening skills by acknowledging others' feelings and experiences.
Compassionate Responses: Respond with kindness and understanding when others share their emotions. NT people like to be understood.
Show them you understand their feelings, even if you don't.
Embracing Neurodiversity
Self-Acceptance: Recognize and embrace your own neurodiversity, as authenticity is vital for building meaningful connections for LTR. However, do not reveal your situation to your new friends/new girlfriend.
Outing your neurodiversity is only during your LTR.
Conclusion
Appearing more NT requires some irl LARP skill.
You will need to constantly mask and act in a specific way. But it's definitively worth the price.
