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Since everyone keeps bringing personality up, let's discuss personality!
In order for your personality to matter you must meet a woman's minimum attraction levels. What do I mean by this? Obviously all women want the most attractive mate they can secure right? Men want this too, however at a certain point, women come to terms with the fact that they will never ever be in a relationship with a 8/9 or even 7 psl dude, that's when they lower their standards, that's where you come in.
Let's take an 5 psl women, the lowest she will ever resort to is a 5psl man, her minimum attraction level requirement, now let's say you are that 5 psl man, now your personality matters! Now if she likes your personality she WILL find you more attractive, you can go upto a six psl and she will not only see you as a romantic interest but as a friend she enjoys spending time with. If you want a relationship with this girl, having a personality that she likes will greatly matter, if you want to fuck her, personality is irrelevant, you have to be attractive to her, even if it's just attractive enough, that will get the job done.
What about the other side of the coin? What if you're not attractive enough? What if her minimum attraction requirement was a 5 and you're a 3? Can personality push you upto a 5? NO! If she likes your personality you will get friendzoned, she will talk to you about the kind of "fun" she had last night but you will never be part of the "fun". If you're ugly and she doesn't like your personality, she will get a restraining order.
All that being said, if a girl find someone significantly better looking than you no matter how "amazing" your personality is and no matter how shit his personality is, she will leave for him.
Bottom line here being, does your personality matter? Yes, ONLY if you meet that girls minimum attraction levels. What if she meets someone far better looking? She will leave you.
In order for your personality to matter you must meet a woman's minimum attraction levels. What do I mean by this? Obviously all women want the most attractive mate they can secure right? Men want this too, however at a certain point, women come to terms with the fact that they will never ever be in a relationship with a 8/9 or even 7 psl dude, that's when they lower their standards, that's where you come in.
Let's take an 5 psl women, the lowest she will ever resort to is a 5psl man, her minimum attraction level requirement, now let's say you are that 5 psl man, now your personality matters! Now if she likes your personality she WILL find you more attractive, you can go upto a six psl and she will not only see you as a romantic interest but as a friend she enjoys spending time with. If you want a relationship with this girl, having a personality that she likes will greatly matter, if you want to fuck her, personality is irrelevant, you have to be attractive to her, even if it's just attractive enough, that will get the job done.
What about the other side of the coin? What if you're not attractive enough? What if her minimum attraction requirement was a 5 and you're a 3? Can personality push you upto a 5? NO! If she likes your personality you will get friendzoned, she will talk to you about the kind of "fun" she had last night but you will never be part of the "fun". If you're ugly and she doesn't like your personality, she will get a restraining order.
All that being said, if a girl find someone significantly better looking than you no matter how "amazing" your personality is and no matter how shit his personality is, she will leave for him.
Bottom line here being, does your personality matter? Yes, ONLY if you meet that girls minimum attraction levels. What if she meets someone far better looking? She will leave you.