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My 6 3 blonde blue eyed athletic chad friend is getting crumbs on dating apps. The last girl he found from hinge he was so repulsed by how disgusting and filthy her house was that he couldn’t bring himself to do anything sexual with her when he was there. Turns out later she was on the news for burning her family’s house down. true story
Couple months later I end up seeing who he is with now, another girl on hinge and she’s latina MTB at BEST. And he looked and seemed so happy. he was telling me “fortunately i found a girl”
my other good looking friends too. it’s pathetic. My chadlite friend said he was “praying for a date on hinge”.
The final blackpill isn’t that you need to be chad or gigachad to succeed on dating apps. It’s that even if you are, you will be scrounging for scraps, and frequently ghosted or discarded. There’s plenty of proof i can show for the disbelievers- not to mention all the chadfishes people have done where tyler maher and other male models were not getting many likes and still being ghosted by beckies. if you still think being Chad is going to make things super easy on online dating apps in 2024, you’re in for a rude awakening.
Dating apps don’t work unless you consider spending months of your time for MAYB a date or two with women under your looksmatch “success”.
anecdote from another user
They don’t work even if you’re chad bc you’re competing against the ultimate turbochad - a combination of all the chads. You simply can’t compete with that. You are simply a face amongst a multitude. Chads don’t stand out anymore. Being a chad on online dating worked a few years ago maybe but things just get worse and worse.
I’ve already tested this but if you still don’t believe me, simply make a catfish account choosing any random beckie’s photos and watch how within days or even one day, she gets 500+ likes, and many of them good looking guys too.
Here’s an experiment my friend ran. 609 likes in a couple days, the male thirst is unquenchable. My sister showed me her tinder profile. 300+ messages, impossible to even answer a quarter of them. She’d have to go on a date a week with a different guy for an entire year just to satisfy everyone. Just make a calendar schedule and have them book you at that point xD
Imagine being a celebrity and how many DMs you’d have. you couldn’t possibly check much less respond to most of them. same idea
The answer is to stop using dating apps because you are simply contributing to the problem
At this point, im so hyper aware of aesthetics that i won’t accept anything less than a near perfect woman. She must have an angelic face.
For most bluepilled men their standard is for her to just not be obese. But for me, it goes far beyond that. i am so aware of every minute flaw that most men overlook simply bc they do not have the eyes to see (aka the blackpill lens/understanding of everything that makes a face attractive and all flaws). That means she can’t have a bump on her nose or recessed chin, or lots of upper eyelid exposure, a big forehead, or anything other than MAYBE one small imperfection. A lot of these get overlooked by men- they know she doesn’t look like a model or that there may be something a bit off, but they can’t pinpoint why. At least they found someone decent/not fat is what they think. A lot of them are tricked by the frauding women do too. That’s why it’s important to research what makes a face attractive, and what are all the failos… and while all that info is on here, most men will never have that knowledge
and this is why i believe men having knowledge of beauty, being able to see through a woman who has tons of fakeup concealing her appearance, recognizing surgeries like filler botox etc, is a good thing.
I was just watching a dating show, and this blue eyed chadlite was over the moon about this LTB unfrauded without makeup, saying how he bagged the hottest girl on the show, and she was his dream girl. He was so stressed about losing her. Meanwhile i’m watching this and rolling my eyes thinking “Dude, you mog her to the heavens and back. why are you stressing over her”
Because i see so many good looking men settling with MTBs or LTBs thinking they landed such a good deal, when they are completely oblivious that THEY are the prize, that their girls, not them, are the ones who lucked out. And if only they had the awareness to detect the flaws, and recognize their true worth, and hold themselves to high standards, they would not have settled. This would trickle down and affect the less attractive men, who now would have a wider pool of looksmatched women to choose from now that HTN+ is only settling for his looksmatch.
This is what women do after all. They enhance their appearance and hold extremely high standards. If all men did this, then the dating market wouldn’t be so skewed… Yes all women would still want chads BUT they wouldn’t have access to them so they’d have to settle for what’s available. This is like how in the past, preinternet where women didn’t have access to a plethora of men, women had to take whatever was close by in their town. They really had a limited pool.
I think the only way to turn things around in society- particularly the horrifically imbalanced amount of power women have over men- is for men to stop being such simps and suckers. For men to elevate their standards and be selective, not just fk anything with a pulse, for HTN+ to stop sleeping (and not even dating) with anyone who is not looksmatched with them. For men to ascend their penultimate versions of themselves physically aesthetically emotionally spiritually. To see beyond lust, to use the blackpill lens to their advantage, to be stoic and stop giving away their value (time money energy attention) so easily.
Couple months later I end up seeing who he is with now, another girl on hinge and she’s latina MTB at BEST. And he looked and seemed so happy. he was telling me “fortunately i found a girl”
my other good looking friends too. it’s pathetic. My chadlite friend said he was “praying for a date on hinge”.
The final blackpill isn’t that you need to be chad or gigachad to succeed on dating apps. It’s that even if you are, you will be scrounging for scraps, and frequently ghosted or discarded. There’s plenty of proof i can show for the disbelievers- not to mention all the chadfishes people have done where tyler maher and other male models were not getting many likes and still being ghosted by beckies. if you still think being Chad is going to make things super easy on online dating apps in 2024, you’re in for a rude awakening.
Dating apps don’t work unless you consider spending months of your time for MAYB a date or two with women under your looksmatch “success”.
anecdote from another user
They don’t work even if you’re chad bc you’re competing against the ultimate turbochad - a combination of all the chads. You simply can’t compete with that. You are simply a face amongst a multitude. Chads don’t stand out anymore. Being a chad on online dating worked a few years ago maybe but things just get worse and worse.
I’ve already tested this but if you still don’t believe me, simply make a catfish account choosing any random beckie’s photos and watch how within days or even one day, she gets 500+ likes, and many of them good looking guys too.
Here’s an experiment my friend ran. 609 likes in a couple days, the male thirst is unquenchable. My sister showed me her tinder profile. 300+ messages, impossible to even answer a quarter of them. She’d have to go on a date a week with a different guy for an entire year just to satisfy everyone. Just make a calendar schedule and have them book you at that point xD
Imagine being a celebrity and how many DMs you’d have. you couldn’t possibly check much less respond to most of them. same idea
The answer is to stop using dating apps because you are simply contributing to the problem
At this point, im so hyper aware of aesthetics that i won’t accept anything less than a near perfect woman. She must have an angelic face.
For most bluepilled men their standard is for her to just not be obese. But for me, it goes far beyond that. i am so aware of every minute flaw that most men overlook simply bc they do not have the eyes to see (aka the blackpill lens/understanding of everything that makes a face attractive and all flaws). That means she can’t have a bump on her nose or recessed chin, or lots of upper eyelid exposure, a big forehead, or anything other than MAYBE one small imperfection. A lot of these get overlooked by men- they know she doesn’t look like a model or that there may be something a bit off, but they can’t pinpoint why. At least they found someone decent/not fat is what they think. A lot of them are tricked by the frauding women do too. That’s why it’s important to research what makes a face attractive, and what are all the failos… and while all that info is on here, most men will never have that knowledge
and this is why i believe men having knowledge of beauty, being able to see through a woman who has tons of fakeup concealing her appearance, recognizing surgeries like filler botox etc, is a good thing.
I was just watching a dating show, and this blue eyed chadlite was over the moon about this LTB unfrauded without makeup, saying how he bagged the hottest girl on the show, and she was his dream girl. He was so stressed about losing her. Meanwhile i’m watching this and rolling my eyes thinking “Dude, you mog her to the heavens and back. why are you stressing over her”
Because i see so many good looking men settling with MTBs or LTBs thinking they landed such a good deal, when they are completely oblivious that THEY are the prize, that their girls, not them, are the ones who lucked out. And if only they had the awareness to detect the flaws, and recognize their true worth, and hold themselves to high standards, they would not have settled. This would trickle down and affect the less attractive men, who now would have a wider pool of looksmatched women to choose from now that HTN+ is only settling for his looksmatch.
This is what women do after all. They enhance their appearance and hold extremely high standards. If all men did this, then the dating market wouldn’t be so skewed… Yes all women would still want chads BUT they wouldn’t have access to them so they’d have to settle for what’s available. This is like how in the past, preinternet where women didn’t have access to a plethora of men, women had to take whatever was close by in their town. They really had a limited pool.
I think the only way to turn things around in society- particularly the horrifically imbalanced amount of power women have over men- is for men to stop being such simps and suckers. For men to elevate their standards and be selective, not just fk anything with a pulse, for HTN+ to stop sleeping (and not even dating) with anyone who is not looksmatched with them. For men to ascend their penultimate versions of themselves physically aesthetically emotionally spiritually. To see beyond lust, to use the blackpill lens to their advantage, to be stoic and stop giving away their value (time money energy attention) so easily.
