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Doesn't vibe with humans much anymore.
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Many here talk of how a social circle is "crucial" for sub-Chad guys, and even still beneficial for Chad hermits obviously vs. being a lonesome loser. Yeah, sure, but no one really can put their finger on how a loner "builds one" they just vaguely touch on the subject.
However, virtually NOBODY on here explains how you go from zero social circle anymore post college/high school to being successfully "socialcirclemaxxxed." Like, it's how fucking millionaires tell you to "just grind" to get out wageslavery as if that worked for most.
The ASSUMPTION here that "socialcirclemaxxed" means you are also "NT" or at least NT enough to supposedly reap the so-called benefits of said maxxing. Like if being NT/socialable "helped" then why was I able to have success without it? Proves it's not "required."
But how do you do it? Like, what does a loner with no money/social venues/connections do to build and be successful in a social circle, thus then reaping these benefits of sex, girlfriends, slays, good company/dopamine, etc. But how? HOW?! I've never had a proper social circle in my entire life, so is this all cope? I think so, if the benefits only come from Chad exposure it's then an avenue for Chad more than for normies.
I've been with girls/had girlfriends temporarily but NEVER had a real social circle. In high school I had a few friends, that's it ... Never was really "cool" or "fit in." Yet all of the guys I know who had social circles weren't getting any if they didn't have sex appeal to begin with.
I never went to college officially because poorcel ... No money. So if all of these "just be social" posts really means "have a lot of money to do shit" then it's not helpful for poorcels, or maybe an incel who lives in rural areas where money won't matter (there is not a strong need of it to "socialmaxx"). So if the bottom line is you NEED MORE SEX APPEAL, then why cope with muh circle if sex appeal > NT/friends?
So once again, for sub-Chads, is a social circle really even all that useful? I'm on the fence because some soys get girls doing it but given I have had girlfriends with NO SOCIAL CIRCLE I am not convinced it's a "requirement" to get the most out of your looks if you don't really have optimal looks 100%. Like if it's all a buncha Chads or Chadlites talking of "social maxxing" that's bullshit, it's looks > social then ideally.
And yeah, muh "everything matters" muh muh BS I know, but IRL is there any big halo to merely have a meh social circle vs. not? I mean, even if it was possible how much would it benefit a normal looking guy with absolutely zero remarkable features or qualities, for example? Can't imagine him ascending much. So it's mostly just an avenue for Chadlite minimum to play numbers game more than anything.
So it's kinda BS many here say you "need" socialmaxxing but the ones who benefit from it most are fucking GigaChads who could get 100+ lays in his basement through Tinder and make FWBs/connections that way. Meanwhile I feel I'd be putting in more work for very marginal benefits I'd otherwise get anyways. Like yeah I want friends but if friends don't get you pussy, are you really reaching your goals 100% then?
So explain FAGGOTS how muh social circle works, how you build one over 30+ (for free) and how you fit in/succeed this way, or you're all full of shit/copes. I know I am a social retard who could use a social circle, but what grinds my gear is how it's dishonest in hw this works. You NEED the sex appeal first. YOU NEED THE LOOKS FIRST. At best a social circle keeps a sub-Chadlite/looks requirement guy from maybe roping and not being depressed, but I have drugs for that anyways. I want proof that socialmaxxing ascends low sex appeal niggas.
Cuz if it ain't ascending you and making you get sex easier and feeling validated, what is the real benefit there? Where is the contentment? It'd be like a buncha incels, or you'd be the loser in a group of sex-having dudes. I don't wanna be the 5th wheel of people, I wanna be the fucking DOM who shows up & wins, not some autist who'd otherwise benefit little because sex appeal is where he caps at, not merely lack of a social grouping. So either show proof that low sex appeal dudes benefit with girls rather than just be incels with friends.
However, virtually NOBODY on here explains how you go from zero social circle anymore post college/high school to being successfully "socialcirclemaxxxed." Like, it's how fucking millionaires tell you to "just grind" to get out wageslavery as if that worked for most.
The ASSUMPTION here that "socialcirclemaxxed" means you are also "NT" or at least NT enough to supposedly reap the so-called benefits of said maxxing. Like if being NT/socialable "helped" then why was I able to have success without it? Proves it's not "required."
But how do you do it? Like, what does a loner with no money/social venues/connections do to build and be successful in a social circle, thus then reaping these benefits of sex, girlfriends, slays, good company/dopamine, etc. But how? HOW?! I've never had a proper social circle in my entire life, so is this all cope? I think so, if the benefits only come from Chad exposure it's then an avenue for Chad more than for normies.
I've been with girls/had girlfriends temporarily but NEVER had a real social circle. In high school I had a few friends, that's it ... Never was really "cool" or "fit in." Yet all of the guys I know who had social circles weren't getting any if they didn't have sex appeal to begin with.
I never went to college officially because poorcel ... No money. So if all of these "just be social" posts really means "have a lot of money to do shit" then it's not helpful for poorcels, or maybe an incel who lives in rural areas where money won't matter (there is not a strong need of it to "socialmaxx"). So if the bottom line is you NEED MORE SEX APPEAL, then why cope with muh circle if sex appeal > NT/friends?
So once again, for sub-Chads, is a social circle really even all that useful? I'm on the fence because some soys get girls doing it but given I have had girlfriends with NO SOCIAL CIRCLE I am not convinced it's a "requirement" to get the most out of your looks if you don't really have optimal looks 100%. Like if it's all a buncha Chads or Chadlites talking of "social maxxing" that's bullshit, it's looks > social then ideally.
And yeah, muh "everything matters" muh muh BS I know, but IRL is there any big halo to merely have a meh social circle vs. not? I mean, even if it was possible how much would it benefit a normal looking guy with absolutely zero remarkable features or qualities, for example? Can't imagine him ascending much. So it's mostly just an avenue for Chadlite minimum to play numbers game more than anything.
So it's kinda BS many here say you "need" socialmaxxing but the ones who benefit from it most are fucking GigaChads who could get 100+ lays in his basement through Tinder and make FWBs/connections that way. Meanwhile I feel I'd be putting in more work for very marginal benefits I'd otherwise get anyways. Like yeah I want friends but if friends don't get you pussy, are you really reaching your goals 100% then?
So explain FAGGOTS how muh social circle works, how you build one over 30+ (for free) and how you fit in/succeed this way, or you're all full of shit/copes. I know I am a social retard who could use a social circle, but what grinds my gear is how it's dishonest in hw this works. You NEED the sex appeal first. YOU NEED THE LOOKS FIRST. At best a social circle keeps a sub-Chadlite/looks requirement guy from maybe roping and not being depressed, but I have drugs for that anyways. I want proof that socialmaxxing ascends low sex appeal niggas.
Cuz if it ain't ascending you and making you get sex easier and feeling validated, what is the real benefit there? Where is the contentment? It'd be like a buncha incels, or you'd be the loser in a group of sex-having dudes. I don't wanna be the 5th wheel of people, I wanna be the fucking DOM who shows up & wins, not some autist who'd otherwise benefit little because sex appeal is where he caps at, not merely lack of a social grouping. So either show proof that low sex appeal dudes benefit with girls rather than just be incels with friends.
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