Anyone else don't see themselves getting into a relationship within the next years?

[Time Travel]

I rarely leave the house except for grocery shopping and going to the gym and I'm not friends with any women that I'd ever consider dating.
I have never met a woman outside of school that I ever became friends with or talked to after meeting her.
I don't know how people actually meet women. No one has ever introduced me to a decent looking woman and no woman I'm interested in has ever expressed interest in me. Tinder doesn't really work for me and I don't think there are a lot of respectable women on tinder.
I will probably try to work for 6 months starting next month but even with the daily routine of going to work etc I don't see myself meeting one.
What's worse is that in all the years of being incel I have developed weird preferences when it comes to women that will forever cripple me in dating.

 

[qwep]

Social circle game

 

[Time Travel]

Social circle game

Most of my social circle consists of other single guys and It's hard to expand your social circle after high school.

 

[qwep]

Most of my social circle consists of other single guys and It's hard to expand your social circle after high school.

Talk to girls on fb/instagram. This is what most normies do and they will get ghosted/ignored a lot but eventually they find a girl who will meet up with them

 

[bobs_pls]

I rarely leave the house except for grocery shopping and going to the gym and I'm not friends with any women that I'd ever consider dating.
I have never met a woman outside of school that I ever became friends with or talked to after meeting her.
I don't know how people actually meet women. No one has ever introduced me to a decent looking woman and no woman I'm interested in has ever expressed interest in me. Tinder doesn't really work for me and I don't think there are a lot of respectable women on tinder.
I will probably try to work for 6 months starting next month but even with the daily routine of going to work etc I don't see myself meeting one.
What's worse is that in all the years of being incel I have developed weird preferences when it comes to women that will forever cripple me in dating.
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thought you're gay tbh

 

[Time Travel]

thought you're gay tbh

I'm not but a lot of people actually assume that even irl which doesn't really help with leaving inceldom.

 

[Bluepill]

I will probably try to work for 6 months starting next month but even with the daily routine of going to work etc I don't see myself meeting one

You never know before it's over. Are you a volcel/mentalcel?

 

[Time Travel]

You never know before it's over. Are you a volcel/mentalcel?

I'm socially awkward when talking to strangers and I'm nervous when I do but I think it's getting better.

 

[bobs_pls]

@Time Travel
hmmm, maybe sign up for dancing/cooking classes, improv course(really fun too) etc.
places where there are lots of women and interaction is easy... or even a bit forced
you'll meet some new people/girls, don't have to hit on them just try to befriend them... and so your social circle will grow...

then of course you have to be the one to take initiative... like "hey let's grab a beer some time" or whatever like in a small group...
introduce new friends to old friends and so on and so forth

 

[Time Travel]

@Time Travel
hmmm, maybe sign up for dancing/cooking classes, improv course(really fun too) etc.
places where there are lots of women and interaction is easy... or even a bit forced
you'll meet some new people/girls, don't have to hit on them just try to befriend them... and so your social circle will grow...

then of course you have to be the one to take initiative... like "hey let's grab a beer some time" or whatever like in a small group...
introduce new friends to old friends and so on and so forth

Yea I get what you mean but even in those classes people usually don't go there alone.
It would be weird to go there and have no one to talk to, I'm not the kind of person that can just introduce themselves to random people they've never seen before.

 

[bobs_pls]

improv course

I'd like to elab on that tbh as I'm taking an improv course atm and I really recommend it
it opens you up, makes you care less what other people think
plus it's really easy to get friends there because the 'teacher' will probably say things like "oh there's this improv show next weekend which is really cool, you should go" and then you can just propose going to the show to some ppl you meet there together, so that's like really fucking easy for you...

 

[Sizzurp]

I probably could have last year but since i missed that chance, i wont attempt untill somewhere 2020 summer, ive never been in one so im not in a rush so should you, try to build on your self first. Guys should never push for relationships no way its weak its beta like some tried here look where its got them no where fear of loss mindset and guys in their feelings emotional.. congrats you played yourself.

 

[Time Travel]

I'd like to elab on that tbh as I'm taking an improv course atm and I really recommend it
it opens you up, makes you care less what other people think
plus it's really easy to get friends there because the 'teacher' will probably say things like "oh there's this improv show next weekend which is really cool, you should go" and then you can just propose going to the show to some ppl you meet there together, so that's like really fucking easy for you...

I don't know man, I'm also not really trying to get normie friends.
I don't think I could actually meet decent women at an cooking/dancing or improv class, I'm not even really into those things.
I just want a gf. I'm happy with the friends I have and with being alone a lot.

 

[Deleted member 611]

Yeah I guess...

I don't like to dwell on this though as it will not deter me from looksmaxxing

I've always been too much of a fuck up to make relationships last online, so how will I do any good in a real life one? Hopefully my social skills improved to the point of not having to worry about this.

 

[Time Travel]

I probably could have last year but since i missed that chance, i wont attempt untill somewhere 2020 summer, ive never been in one so im not in a rush so should you, try to build on your self first. Guys should never push for relationships no way its weak its beta like some tried here look where its got them no where fear of loss mindset and guys in their feelings emotional.. congrats you played yourself.

I'm not actively trying to get a girlfriend, what I was trying to say is that I don't see myself getting one if my life goes on as it is.

 

[Insomniac]

I will die alone. Virginity still intact.

 

[Sizzurp]

I'm not actively trying to get a girlfriend, what I was trying to say is that I don't see myself getting one if my life goes on as it is.

I see, and thats just fine. As long as you make progress for your self . Im not expecting it either but you have to make your self a catch and things will just fall into place. Things are easier to find when you dont look for it.

 

[bobs_pls]

I don't know man, I'm also not really trying to get normie friends.
I don't think I could actually meet decent women at an cooking/dancing or improv class, I'm not even really into those things.
I just want a gf. I'm happy with the friends I have and with being alone a lot.

well you wanted advice, that's my advice for a shy guy you said you are, it's the easiest way tbh

harder is just hitting on girls until you get lucky, you're gl enough to pull it off without sexual harrasment problems imo

 

[Time Travel]

I will die alone. Virginity still intact.

At least no one can take that from us.

I see, and thats just fine. As long as you make progress for your self . Im not expecting it either but you have to make your self a catch and things will just fall into place. Things are easier to find when you dont look for it.

Haven't stumbled upon it in 21 years tho.

well you wanted advice, that's my advice for a shy guy you said you are, it's the easiest way tbh

harder is just hitting on girls until you get lucky, you're gl enough to pull it off without sexual harrasment problems imo

I don't even know if I can change my situation I just keep hoping that it magically fixes itself.

 

[dodt]

You are not bad looking, so there should be foids interested in you, try with them first to get some experience.

 

[bobs_pls]

I don't even know if I can change my situation I just keep hoping that it magically fixes itself.

good luck with that boyo

 

[Sizzurp]

At least no one can take that from us.

Haven't stumbled upon it in 21 years tho.

I don't even know if I can change my situation I just keep hoping that it magically fixes itself.

If ur 21 im slighty older than u, last year i was chasing like crazy i wasted a year, dont worry females are not worth it what has more worth is seeking knowledge improve your self never settle for less be a warrior be strong learn new things learn a new langeague these things hold more value in life than a shitty relationship that wont last and slow you down. I live with women trust me they are annoying i like being alone rather then with them.

 

[Time Travel]

You are not bad looking, so there should be foids interested in you, try with them first to get some experience.

yea dude they are lining up outside of my house, can't decide which one i should pick lol

 

[dodt]

yea dude they are lining up outside of my house, can't decide which one i should pick lol

Then you remind me of a foid which doesnt want to settle for anything less chan Chad and saying "tfw no bf"

 

[Time Travel]

If ur 21 im slighty older than u, last year i was chasing like crazy i wasted a year, dont worry females are not worth it what has more worth is seeking knowledge improve your self never settle for less be a warrior be strong learn new things learn a new langeague these things hold more value in life than a shitty relationship that wont last and slow you down. I live with women trust me they are annoying i like being alone rather then with them.

I've never chased a woman in my life and I don't want to live with one either. It would be nice to have a woman to meet up with sometimes and to talk to.

Then you remind me of a foid which doesnt want to settle for anything less chan Chad and saying "tfw no bf"

I was obviously joking. I never talk to girls nor do they talk to me.

 

[bobs_pls]

I was obviously joking. I never talk to girls nor do they talk to me.

mentalcel tbh

 

[VST]

I rarely leave the house except for grocery shopping and going to the gym and I'm not friends with any women that I'd ever consider dating.
I have never met a woman outside of school that I ever became friends with or talked to after meeting her.
I don't know how people actually meet women. No one has ever introduced me to a decent looking woman and no woman I'm interested in has ever expressed interest in me. Tinder doesn't really work for me and I don't think there are a lot of respectable women on tinder.
I will probably try to work for 6 months starting next month but even with the daily routine of going to work etc I don't see myself meeting one.
What's worse is that in all the years of being incel I have developed weird preferences when it comes to women that will forever cripple me in dating.
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Yeah, can relate.
Having a woman interested in you is such an outlandish concept for us, no one has been interested is us in the couple of decades we have been alive, so we could assume that trend will carry on.

And even if we did have a female interested, we'd fuck it up, due to the lack of experience and go back to square 1, it's a slippery slope.

 

[dodt]

no one has been interested

cope, its not possible with your looks level

 

[bobs_pls]

cope, its not possible with your looks level

yep but he was crap until pubertymaxxing so proly that's the case

 

[Sizzurp]

I've never chased a woman in my life and I don't want to live with one either. It would be nice to have a woman to meet up with sometimes and to talk to.

I was obviously joking. I never talk to girls nor do they talk to me.

Well with chasing i dont mean literally chase i mean putting my self out there and they will let you know if they like you, I never approach a girl they send signals first then you can approach so you are both interested not just 1 party, I got those signals knew what was going on but still didnt approach thats why im still on the road of improving my self, Why i didnt approach you may ask its because im just to insecure , So decided to fix my insecurity's head on and change my life once and for all and live happily and enjoy every moment.

 

[RichardSpencel]

Yeah, can relate.
Having a woman interested in you is such an outlandish concept for us, no one has been interested is us in the couple of decades we have been alive, so we could assume that trend will carry on.

And even if we did have a female interested, we'd fuck it up, due to the lack of experience and go back to square 1, it's a slippery slope.

Tfw no gf 4 2 daise.

 

[Deleted member 470]

I'm not but a lot of people actually assume that even irl which doesn't really help with leaving inceldom.

it's probably the hair bro

 

[Time Travel]

it's probably the hair bro

its always been this way no matter the hairstyle

 

[Disputed]

Idk bro never wanted a relationship. I just wanna fuck that's all. That's what I do. It's good stuff bro.

Relationships are for cucks no offense. Just grab the pussy, fill it, cum in it, and leave. Next pussy. Cycle repeats. etc

 

[Time Travel]

Idk bro never wanted a relationship. I just wanna fuck that's all. That's what I do. It's good stuff bro.

Relationships are for cucks no offense. Just grab the pussy, fill it, cum in it, and leave. Next pussy. Cycle repeats. etc

cucks are the ones that overvalue sex.

 

[Disputed]

cucks are the ones that overvalue sex.

So you want a relationship?

 

[Deleted member 281]

Yeah, can relate.
Having a woman interested in you is such an outlandish concept for us, no one has been interested is us in the couple of decades we have been alive, so we could assume that trend will carry on.

And even if we did have a female interested, we'd fuck it up, due to the lack of experience and go back to square 1, it's a slippery slope.

Chad pls

 

[Deleted member 656]

And even if we did have a female interested, we'd fuck it up, due to the lack of experience and go back to square 1, it's a slippery slope.

With all sincerity and without meaning to sound condescending, it's nowhere near as complicated as you'd imagine it to be prior to ever having experienced it. It's known as falling in love for a reason.

 

[Deleted member 281]

I rarely leave the house except for grocery shopping and going to the gym and I'm not friends with any women that I'd ever consider dating.
I have never met a woman outside of school that I ever became friends with or talked to after meeting her.
I don't know how people actually meet women. No one has ever introduced me to a decent looking woman and no woman I'm interested in has ever expressed interest in me. Tinder doesn't really work for me and I don't think there are a lot of respectable women on tinder.
I will probably try to work for 6 months starting next month but even with the daily routine of going to work etc I don't see myself meeting one.
What's worse is that in all the years of being incel I have developed weird preferences when it comes to women that will forever cripple me in dating.
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That haircut is terrible op, but you do look significantly better than you did in the pic you uploaded when you first came here (don't know if it was lens distortion or what). Also, get shredded, I saw that thread where you posted your physique, you need to get 15-20 lbs lighter, this will improve your face too. After doing these things, try tinder again.

 

[Blitz]

I've never chased a woman in my life and I don't want to live with one either. It would be nice to have a woman to meet up with sometimes and to talk to.

I was obviously joking. I never talk to girls nor do they talk to me.

 

[Deleted member 611]

I've never chased a woman in my life and I don't want to live with one either. It would be nice to have a woman to meet up with sometimes and to talk to.

I was obviously joking. I never talk to girls nor do they talk to me.

High inhib or very gay

 

[Cali Yuga]

I used to be ultra high inhib like you OP. Its very hard to break out of, especially given that porn/technological diversions are so ubiquitous and women are so boring and gassed up nowadays. I literally went ~three years where I went from school to gym to my room every day and probably spoke an average of twenty words per day.

Social anxiety combined with the apathy that technological society engenders creates a feedback loop which causes one to become increasingly isolated and alienated over time until one reaches a point where it can be hard to imagine a way back into the normal social order.
Fixing your diet and heavily limiting tech use is key if you want to break out of it.

 

[TeaGuy]

I used to be ultra high inhib like you OP. Its very hard to break out of, especially given that porn/technological diversions are so ubiquitous and women are so boring and gassed up nowadays. I literally went ~three years where I went from school to gym to my room every day and probably spoke an average of twenty words per day.

Social anxiety combined with the apathy that technological society engenders creates a feedback loop which causes one to become increasingly isolated and alienated over time until one reaches a point where it can be hard to imagine a way back into the normal social order.
Fixing your diet and heavily limiting tech use is key if you want to break out of it.

what did you do besides diet and limiting tech use?

 

[Cali Yuga]

what did you do besides diet and limiting tech use?

Once you get your health right and you don't have tech as a fallback dopamine drip you will naturally go out, be social, find new productive hobbies that will lead to social circles etc. because your natural reward systems will force you to.

Not promising heaps of pussy or the world on a silver platter but until I did this, particularly the health element, I didn't realize I had been seriously depressed and anxious for years and thought it was normal because I'd never felt normal. We live in a fallen world; a declining civilization with a satanic technological fixation but life isn't so bad when you stop leaning into the evil shit and degrading yourself.

 

[TeaGuy]

Once you get your health right and you don't have tech as a fallback dopamine drip you will naturally go out, be social, find new productive hobbies that will lead to social circles etc. because your natural reward systems will force you to.

Not promising heaps of pussy or the world on a silver platter but until I did this, particularly the health element, I didn't realize I had been seriously depressed and anxious for years and thought it was normal because I'd never felt normal. We live in a fallen world; a declining civilization with a satanic technological fixation but life isn't so bad when you stop leaning into the evil shit and degrading yourself.

I am already eating extremely healthy and the reason I am excessively using tech is because of my social anxiety. On vacations I have gone 6 weeks without any techs before and it didn't really solve my problem. I feel like in my case something different is the problem.

 

[Deleted member 795]

you are gl, so if you can't find someone: shame on you.

Anyway, yeah... i am just too much dejected and doubtful right now, since the last one who left me without saying anything, after i did so much for her cuz i was fine with her... and still we never got sex, and i'm feeling like an idiot that she used.

 

[Kenma]

Everything is so fucked right now it feels like getting into a relationship again is a trap
A bad relationship can give a man legit PTSD

 

[Dude420]

I don't know how people actually meet women. No one has ever introduced me to a decent looking woman and no woman I'm interested in has ever expressed interest in me.

Just have a better the jawline and foids will ask you if they can study with you and shit.

 

[IntolerantSocialist]

Nah I have extremist views so it limits who I can hang out with esp. Women in this neoliberal shithole of a city

 

[Cali Yuga]

I am already eating extremely healthy and the reason I am excessively using tech is because of my social anxiety. On vacations I have gone 6 weeks without any techs before and it didn't really solve my problem. I feel like in my case something different is the problem.

what do you eat?