LocalDanger
Master
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2021
- Posts
- 1,682
- Reputation
- 1,787
I was on incel forums while back and now im here for first time. So i guess i returned but this place seems bit more productive i guess and has more organized knowledge then previous places and i changed a bit maybe. This is long post i know probably no one will read it and its not for people who dont want anything serious to talk about and reflect.
I feel like when i joined incel forums my life took dark turn but its probably because i was not in good place to start with like probably everyone here but there is more to that.
I feel like if you already have issues and feel isolated the moment you start relating with on of most hated groups in the world incels you kind of start identifying with them without even interacting with any of them.You feel like outsider already and sick person when around others even before you start saying weird things that incels say that a lot of us end up saying. Its start with you having a bit of dark thought pattern maybe from isolation but its always also in your head you were in unlucky place from the start most likely, most of us are very bad at dealing with strong negative emotions but thats for another time.So once you hear there are people with similar thoughts and that its a real movement and a real thing, you start taking dark thoughts more seriously now you are part of something bad thats real and you cant deny them anymore its becomes serious.Once you start making weird and hateful posts to bring out frustration you just fuel it and you are then in too deep already.
Inability to deal with strong negative emotions + frustration+ isolation + identification with others that whole world despises + plus feeling that whole world hates you and that you are irredeemable and that there is no coming back well good luck with that your mental health and head is in deep trouble. Take the fact that there are a lot of teenagers here and older people in dark state of mind without ability to clearly think from countless problems in their heads and you got nightmare combo.
I don't know if there is solution for this im not proposing one. Im not stupid enough to think i can fix anything or that im that much beyond anything and i know im not saying anything thats fun. But i see countless people here who are in big trouble mentally and in their head and its way over my ability or anyones at the moment to fix it . Some would be fixed with just making good friends and connections with others while some maybe need something else i don't know . Sure being better looking maybe would fix some too but for a lot of people here problem runs way deeper imo but even if perfect looks could fix everything most of us cant have them and maybe never will .
I feel this place at least has some useful information and its organized in better way then previous places where i have been but there are a lot of problems here too its not that different in some ways . I will maybe make a post later about what normies or outside normal people however you call them got right and where they are wrong because i thought a lot about it while being on both sides obliviously more on an incel or isolated side. And other things about root reason why we maybe become like this . I dont know if this was comprehensive because English is not my first language and i find it hard to express everything properly because of that .
I feel like when i joined incel forums my life took dark turn but its probably because i was not in good place to start with like probably everyone here but there is more to that.
I feel like if you already have issues and feel isolated the moment you start relating with on of most hated groups in the world incels you kind of start identifying with them without even interacting with any of them.You feel like outsider already and sick person when around others even before you start saying weird things that incels say that a lot of us end up saying. Its start with you having a bit of dark thought pattern maybe from isolation but its always also in your head you were in unlucky place from the start most likely, most of us are very bad at dealing with strong negative emotions but thats for another time.So once you hear there are people with similar thoughts and that its a real movement and a real thing, you start taking dark thoughts more seriously now you are part of something bad thats real and you cant deny them anymore its becomes serious.Once you start making weird and hateful posts to bring out frustration you just fuel it and you are then in too deep already.
Inability to deal with strong negative emotions + frustration+ isolation + identification with others that whole world despises + plus feeling that whole world hates you and that you are irredeemable and that there is no coming back well good luck with that your mental health and head is in deep trouble. Take the fact that there are a lot of teenagers here and older people in dark state of mind without ability to clearly think from countless problems in their heads and you got nightmare combo.
I don't know if there is solution for this im not proposing one. Im not stupid enough to think i can fix anything or that im that much beyond anything and i know im not saying anything thats fun. But i see countless people here who are in big trouble mentally and in their head and its way over my ability or anyones at the moment to fix it . Some would be fixed with just making good friends and connections with others while some maybe need something else i don't know . Sure being better looking maybe would fix some too but for a lot of people here problem runs way deeper imo but even if perfect looks could fix everything most of us cant have them and maybe never will .
I feel this place at least has some useful information and its organized in better way then previous places where i have been but there are a lot of problems here too its not that different in some ways . I will maybe make a post later about what normies or outside normal people however you call them got right and where they are wrong because i thought a lot about it while being on both sides obliviously more on an incel or isolated side. And other things about root reason why we maybe become like this . I dont know if this was comprehensive because English is not my first language and i find it hard to express everything properly because of that .