Message to young guys

[Deleted member 3828]

Everyone who consider himself "incel" should read this. Analyze your flaws objectively. Don't fall for this "i am repulsive its over for me" bs trap.

I'm in my 30's and I worry about the nihilistic outlook that a lot of guys in their early 20's have and how resigned they are to having the worst lives imaginable. When you are young, you totally underestimate how much life can change. I spent my entire 20's thinking I was repulsively ugly. Recently, I was looking through old photos and I was actually surprised how good looking I actually was.

I have a ton of regrets now, about how much suffering I put myself through and how many opportunities to meet women. Focus on making yourself the best version you can be with whatever hand of cards you've been dealt. There is almost always something you do to make your situation better. Honestly, I think they should be teaching stoicism to young guys (and women too) in school. It's important to have an honest assessment of how your life is, even if it is bad, but this doomer shit needs to stop.

 

[Deleted member 3828]

@RichmondBread @eduardkoopman

 

[thecel]

This Thread = Copium delivered direct to your door.

 

[Foreverbrad]

It's legit over if you're in the bottom 90% though. You are repulsive.

 

[thecel]

It's legit over if you're in the bottom 90% though. You are repulsive.

Do you mean bottom 10%?

 

[Foreverbrad]

Do you mean bottom 10%?

Bottom 90% after being fully looksmaxxed.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I'm in my 30's

I expected you alot younger, due to your shitpost maxxings.
I hope you look better now, than in ur 20's.
Also, i hope you can keep up dca in the current times into bitcoin, good cryptos. It suspect good gains what is bought now, in 2 or maybe 1 years time.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Bottom 90% after being fully looksmaxxed.

I am in the bottom 75%.
After lip surgery, I will be bottom 80%
I think I will be unable to reacht top 10% guy looks

 

[homesick]

OK so you rated yourself uglier than u thought. of course u will have regrets if u were a mentalcel. its a different story if you actually are ugly

 

[BoneDensity]

This Thread = Copium delivered direct to your door.

Correct. Opportunities present themselves to good looking people, not the other way around.

 

[2d v2]

Everyone who consider himself "incel" should read this. Analyze your flaws objectively. Don't fall for this "i am repulsive its over for me" bs trap.

I'm in my 30's and I worry about the nihilistic outlook that a lot of guys in their early 20's have and how resigned they are to having the worst lives imaginable. When you are young, you totally underestimate how much life can change. I spent my entire 20's thinking I was repulsively ugly. Recently, I was looking through old photos and I was actually surprised how good looking I actually was.

I have a ton of regrets now, about how much suffering I put myself through and how many opportunities to meet women. Focus on making yourself the best version you can be with whatever hand of cards you've been dealt. There is almost always something you do to make your situation better. Honestly, I think they should be teaching stoicism to young guys (and women too) in school. It's important to have an honest assessment of how your life is, even if it is bad, but this doomer shit needs to stop.

for me, i thought i was ugly in my early 20s, and spent three years + nailing my self in the face with a hammer.

It seemed to work, 25 and only focusing on skin care now. life hasnt been better since looksmax

not that im advocating for it, but it worked for me.

Doomer encouragement and self acceptance is one thing, but if you are down right weak, do something about it. Dont sit there doom and gloom, take the fuckin action.

Men now have the same potential to be high t as our ancestors, and the peak of natural male T is pure bliss.

So yeah don't give up, take the good advice and throw out the shitty advice. Go out, have fun. The computer is bad.

 

[....]

Everyone who consider himself "incel" should read this. Analyze your flaws objectively. Don't fall for this "i am repulsive its over for me" bs trap.

I'm in my 30's and I worry about the nihilistic outlook that a lot of guys in their early 20's have and how resigned they are to having the worst lives imaginable. When you are young, you totally underestimate how much life can change. I spent my entire 20's thinking I was repulsively ugly. Recently, I was looking through old photos and I was actually surprised how good looking I actually was.

I have a ton of regrets now, about how much suffering I put myself through and how many opportunities to meet women. Focus on making yourself the best version you can be with whatever hand of cards you've been dealt. There is almost always something you do to make your situation better. Honestly, I think they should be teaching stoicism to young guys (and women too) in school. It's important to have an honest assessment of how your life is, even if it is bad, but this doomer shit needs to stop.

I understand you created this thread in good faith.

But you misunderstand what the people here truly want.

Sure, there will a few of us who just want a girlfriend. But the majority of us want to live the chad lifestyle. We want girls going crazy, when we walk into a room. We want girls to be easy whenever we go on Tinder. We want all the life benefits that come with being a chad.

Sure, we can opt into the normie/high tier normie lifestyle, but that just comes with pain and suffering and hard work.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

It's legit over if you're in the bottom 90% though. You are repulsive.

i think this is an exaggeration tbh

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Everyone who consider himself "incel" should read this. Analyze your flaws objectively. Don't fall for this "i am repulsive its over for me" bs trap.

I'm in my 30's and I worry about the nihilistic outlook that a lot of guys in their early 20's have and how resigned they are to having the worst lives imaginable. When you are young, you totally underestimate how much life can change. I spent my entire 20's thinking I was repulsively ugly. Recently, I was looking through old photos and I was actually surprised how good looking I actually was.

I have a ton of regrets now, about how much suffering I put myself through and how many opportunities to meet women. Focus on making yourself the best version you can be with whatever hand of cards you've been dealt. There is almost always something you do to make your situation better. Honestly, I think they should be teaching stoicism to young guys (and women too) in school. It's important to have an honest assessment of how your life is, even if it is bad, but this doomer shit needs to stop.

Amen.

Will also drop this here for any sub 26 year old zoomers that want it.

 

[Deleted member 17920]

Sure, there will a few of us who just want a girlfriend. But the majority of us want to live the chad lifestyle. We want girls going crazy, when we walk into a room. We want girls to be easy whenever we go on Tinder. We want all the life benefits that come with being a chad.

Fax no one wants to be a normie

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

I understand you created this thread in good faith.

But you misunderstand what the people here truly want.

Sure, there will a few of us who just want a girlfriend. But the majority of us want to live the chad lifestyle. We want girls going crazy, when we walk into a room. We want girls to be easy whenever we go on Tinder. We want all the life benefits that come with being a chad.

Sure, we can opt into the normie/high tier normie lifestyle, but that just comes with pain and suffering and hard work.

You had a 20% chance of being a Chad / Chadlite and you missed the mark. That is no different to how the deal was for Millennial men and we grew up with Facebook while Instagram/Tinder was just starting. The reason it didn't affect us as much is because we weren't as exposed to all the easy benefits Chad got and so we put in the decent amount of work it took to earn our crust.

The chase used to be worth it for men. What happened to mean it isn't for Gen Z guys? Because you know the other fucker has it on easier mode means you can't refine your skills in other departments? It's the equivalent to every self made millionaire having said I won't work to create wealth because some guys were just born into it.

Whatever you are exposed to in regard to how easy Chad has it, let it slide and filter it from your system. We all know preselection plays a massive integral part but we also know it sets a ceiling, one to which many normies on here aren't even near to reaching all because they don't look like some thirsted over tiktok star.

Realistically the only way someone can looks max their way into the Chad divisions is if they take surgery as a normie to get rid of failos. If you don't have the base for it, looks softmax and move onto developing other skills while testing yourself out in the wild and learning organically as a decent HTN

 

[cutecel]

So you hit your thirties and are getting attention now as a betabuxxer? JFL

 

[Deleted member 2729]

ok boomer

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

truth is dating is A LOT harder for young men now vs a decade ago- but its still not as hard as some peole here claim

 

[bleksandre]

You had a 20% chance of being a Chad / Chadlite and you missed the mark. That is no different to how the deal was for Millennial men and we grew up with Facebook while Instagram/Tinder was just starting. The reason it didn't affect us as much is because we weren't as exposed to all the easy benefits Chad got and so we put in the decent amount of work it took to earn our crust.

The chase used to be worth it for men. What happened to mean it isn't for Gen Z guys? Because you know the other fucker has it on easier mode means you can't refine your skills in other departments? It's the equivalent to every self made millionaire having said I won't work to create wealth because some guys were just born into it.

Whatever you are exposed to in regard to how easy Chad has it, let it slide and filter it from your system. We all know preselection plays a massive integral part but we also know it sets a ceiling, one to which many normies on here aren't even near to reaching all because they don't look like some thirsted over tiktok star.

Realistically the only way someone can looks max their way into the Chad divisions is if they take surgery as a normie to get rid of failos. If you don't have the base for it, looks softmax and move onto developing other skills while testing yourself out in the wild and learning organically as a decent HTN

What is the point of developing other skills, getting a decent job, study, if your life is pathetic because of your looks, and nothing will change. Nobody will value you for your position in the society.

 

[BoneDensity]

Fax no one wants to be a normie

normie = sexless cuck

 

[BoneDensity]

What is the point of developing other skills, getting a decent job, study, if your life is pathetic because of your looks, and nothing will change. Nobody will value you for your position in the society.

If your genetics don't fit your social position society sees you as an overcompensating subhuman.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

What is the point of developing other skills, getting a decent job, study, if your life is pathetic because of your looks, and nothing will change. Nobody will value you for your position in the society.

At no place in my paragraph did I talk about being below normie and developing other skills.

Are you below normie?

 

[Deleted member 18879]

What if you're sub 5?

 

[Artemis]

Everyone who consider himself "incel" should read this. Analyze your flaws objectively. Don't fall for this "i am repulsive its over for me" bs trap.

I'm in my 30's and I worry about the nihilistic outlook that a lot of guys in their early 20's have and how resigned they are to having the worst lives imaginable. When you are young, you totally underestimate how much life can change. I spent my entire 20's thinking I was repulsively ugly. Recently, I was looking through old photos and I was actually surprised how good looking I actually was.

I have a ton of regrets now, about how much suffering I put myself through and how many opportunities to meet women. Focus on making yourself the best version you can be with whatever hand of cards you've been dealt. There is almost always something you do to make your situation better. Honestly, I think they should be teaching stoicism to young guys (and women too) in school. It's important to have an honest assessment of how your life is, even if it is bad, but this doomer shit needs to stop.

Man, you got to the wrong place.

This is looksmax, and you needed https://www.reddit.com/

 

[Artemis]

If your genetics don't fit your social position society sees you as an overcompensating subhuman.

Well, isn't this better than "underachieving" subhuman?

 

[Artemis]

What is the point of developing other skills, getting a decent job, study, if your life is pathetic because of your looks, and nothing will change. Nobody will value you for your position in the society.

Not true at all.

In fact, I know many guys who are ugly/short as fuck, but everyone values them because they are competent and hard-working. I also respect them a lot.

 

[Deleted member 2729]

Not true at all.

In fact, I know many guys who are ugly/short as fuck, but everyone values them because they are competent and hard-working. I also respect them a lot.

true. only people that dont care about your achievements are WOMEN they only care for LOOKS

 

[Artemis]

normie = sexless cuck

This is the issue with the HEAD...

Nowadays if you are sexless, you must be either VERY POOR, or MENTALCEL. Because escorts are ALWAYS available. Everywhere. So even a poor McDonalds worker can afford to have a good booty once a year (more often than some married people btw ).

 

[BoneDensity]

Well, isn't this better than "underachieving" subhuman?

Nobody has expectations of subhumans so a low status subhuman is expected and not really underachieving. When a subhuman is successful then people become suspicious as his looks don't corelate with his position. Especially women who instantly label them as overcompensating tryhards.

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Not true at all.

In fact, I know many guys who are ugly/short as fuck, but everyone values them because they are competent and hard-working. I also respect them a lot.

Agreeable*

You have to become a cuck if your appearance is that of a cuck.

Then they are welcomed with open arms.

Become a girl basically and which is agreeable. If you are ugly and short.

 

[Artemis]

Agreeable*

You have to become a cuck if your appearance is that of a cuck.

Then they are welcomed with open arms.

Become a girl basically and which is agreeable. If you are ugly and short.

Yes, but i do not agree with how you framed it.

Some good-looking people are arrogant sacks of shit. However, they are FORGIVEN for this because of their other qualities (looks here). It does NOT mean people love this trait of theirs. In fact, many good looking people are also compassionate and good people overall (none of them here on looksmax ), and they are loved A LOT MORE than good looking narcissists.

Ugly guys do not have this privilege. So they have to keep in line, and "live in a society". But this is actually NORMAL DECENT HUMAN BEHAVIOUR. Not something to be called "cuck" for.

 

[Deleted member 2729]

truth is dating is A LOT harder for young men now vs a decade ago- but its still not as hard as some peole here claim

its all due to social media and especially tinder. There is a big cutoff around the years 2011/2012 where most users here just turned old enough to consider girls an important aspect of their life. I read some old PUA report from 2008/9 and the different "vibe" I got from life and dating back then was just insane. Try doing this shit today and expecting results lmao. Back then you literally mogged 99% of men when you just approachend a foid..

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

true. only people that dont care about your achievements are WOMEN they only care for LOOKS

Women are emotional creatures. So they associate your facial characteristics with your personality.

This is why a cute guy will get smiled at all the time with girls giggling amongst themselves and fiddling with their hair. It's a biological emotional reaction. That is just one example.

Men also fall for the looks are your personality trap, but less so as they are more logical, rational and objective in their base thinking.

Women dislike the incongruence. So if you are ugly but act with charisma and confidence, women particularly between the years of 16 and 25 where they are carrying their most eggs, will feel a disgust, because they are subliminally protecting the future of their potential off-spring without realising it. (Imagining procreating with said subhuman)

Same way if you are incongruent by looking like a stud but acting like an awkward twit, they will feel uneasy and repulsed, just not as much and you will may be have a chance to recover frame depending on just how attractive you are.

 

[Deleted member 2729]

Women are emotional creatures. So they associate your facial characteristics with your personality.

This is why a cute guy will get smiled at all the time with girls giggling amongst themselves and fiddling with their hair. It's a biological emotional reaction. That is just one example.

Men also fall for the looks are your personality trap, but less so as they are more logical, rational and objective in their base thinking.

Women dislike the incongruence. So if you are ugly but act with charisma and confidence, women particularly between the years of 16 and 25 where they are carrying their most eggs, will feel a disgust, because they are subliminally protecting the future of their potential off-spring without realising it. (Imagining procreating with said subhuman)

Same way if you are incongruent by looking like a stud but acting like awkward twit, they will feel uneasy and repulsed, just not as much and you will may be have a chance to recover frame depending on just how attractive you are.

tldr looksmax or death

 

[MakinItHappenReturn]

Yes, but i do not agree with how you framed it.

Some good-looking people are arrogant sacks of shit. However, they are FORGIVEN for this because of their other qualities (looks here). It does NOT mean people love this trait of theirs. In fact, many good looking people are also compassionate and good people overall (none of them here on looksmax ), and they are loved A LOT MORE than good looking narcissists.

Ugly guys do not have this privilege. So they have to keep in line, and "live in a society". But this is actually NORMAL DECENT HUMAN BEHAVIOUR. Not something to be called "cuck" for.

But it is arousing to women. What is admired by society as a whole is not what arouses women when they want to fuck. It's the opposite. Being a rebel, being edgy and naturally not giving a fuck is what turns them on. All granted they find you physically attractive.

This thread is about women and not being a hit with society but I understand you are addressing the doomer that said you won't be valued in society because you are physically unattractive.

 

[....]

but its still not as hard as some peole here claim

show face b4 u make bold claims like this

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

show face b4 u make bold claims like this

im mtn/htn but just had surgery yesterday so hopefully solid htn now

 

[Artemis]

im mtn/htn but just had surgery yesterday so hopefully solid htn now

That's more interesting than shitposting here...

What did you do?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

That's more interesting than shitposting here...

What did you do?

septorhinoplasty

 

[Artemis]

septorhinoplasty

Where did you do it? Who was the doc, and how much?

 

[....]

im mtn/htn but just had surgery yesterday so hopefully solid htn now

mtn/htns dont slay 40+ chicks. probably chadlite

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Where did you do it? Who was the doc, and how much?

pm me for details

mtn/htns dont slay 40+ chicks. probably chadlite

Strong MTN/weak HTN with high quality pics for online dating (well taken, social, NT pics) + body halo + im NT on the dates

Im hoping now to be like defo HTN rather than a more boderline mtn/htn

 

[....]

pm me for details

Strong MTN/weak HTN with high quality pics for online dating (well taken, social, NT pics) + body halo + im NT on the dates

shw face

 

[Artemis]

mtn/htns dont slay 40+ chicks. probably chadlite

I would rate him Chadlite honestly even without rhino, with rhino strong chadlite

 

[....]

I would rate him Chadlite honestly even without rhino, with rhino strong chadlite

show me pic of him

 

[SeiGun]

you dont self identify incel, you are objectively incel if you cant get sex....

 

[Artemis]

show me pic of him

No sry. Privacy. Ask him yourself

 

[....]

No sry. Privacy. Ask him yourself

Ahh you're scared of him. got it

 

[Artemis]

Ahh you're scared of him. got it

Yes sure... he s gonna kick my ass by teleporting to an unknown address 2000km away