Debetro
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You are attractive.
Of course you aren't attractive to everyone. Nobody is. You may not even be attractive to most people, or a small amount of people, but that doesn't mean you aren't attractive. It doesn't matter how abnormal you are, there are a sizable number of people out there who find you attractive. There's billions of people on the planet.
As men, we understand that we all have different types and that essentially all female body and personality types are appreciated by some men. Short, tall, fat, skinny, big boobie, small boobie, etc, etc, straight teeth, crooked teeth. The same goes for personality characteristics. Some guys like shy women, confident women, crazy women, domineering women, mean women, nerdy women.
It's ridiculous to assume the same isn't true for women and their attraction to men. Enough women are into short guys, fat guys, nerdy guys, hairy guys, assholes, very shy guys. They are out there, just like men are into different things.
It's not a matter of fitting into a narrow ideal of what attractiveness is. That's a futile attempt for everyone. Change yourself for the better, but have better reasons than fitting an unrealistic ideal of attractiveness.
You would be better served accepting yourself for who you are rather than trying to change yourself. It's much more pragmatic and productive to make efforts trying to find someone who is into your personal mix of traits than it is trying to mold yourself into a different person.
With the amount of time you spend trying to get low body fat %, getting jacked, tanned, and shaving/waxing your body, becoming obscenely confident or pretending to be, you could more easily just find someone who is into you as you are. It's just a matter of effort and putting yourself out there.
Many people are into people who are similar to them because they can relate, or the opposite of them because they hate themselves, so there's really no mix of attributes that are totally unattractive.
You are attractive. Get over it. Accept it. Find someone (or multiple people) whose kink is you. You may be more niche, but you aren't necessarily unattractive.
Of course you aren't attractive to everyone. Nobody is. You may not even be attractive to most people, or a small amount of people, but that doesn't mean you aren't attractive. It doesn't matter how abnormal you are, there are a sizable number of people out there who find you attractive. There's billions of people on the planet.
As men, we understand that we all have different types and that essentially all female body and personality types are appreciated by some men. Short, tall, fat, skinny, big boobie, small boobie, etc, etc, straight teeth, crooked teeth. The same goes for personality characteristics. Some guys like shy women, confident women, crazy women, domineering women, mean women, nerdy women.
It's ridiculous to assume the same isn't true for women and their attraction to men. Enough women are into short guys, fat guys, nerdy guys, hairy guys, assholes, very shy guys. They are out there, just like men are into different things.
It's not a matter of fitting into a narrow ideal of what attractiveness is. That's a futile attempt for everyone. Change yourself for the better, but have better reasons than fitting an unrealistic ideal of attractiveness.
You would be better served accepting yourself for who you are rather than trying to change yourself. It's much more pragmatic and productive to make efforts trying to find someone who is into your personal mix of traits than it is trying to mold yourself into a different person.
With the amount of time you spend trying to get low body fat %, getting jacked, tanned, and shaving/waxing your body, becoming obscenely confident or pretending to be, you could more easily just find someone who is into you as you are. It's just a matter of effort and putting yourself out there.
Many people are into people who are similar to them because they can relate, or the opposite of them because they hate themselves, so there's really no mix of attributes that are totally unattractive.
You are attractive. Get over it. Accept it. Find someone (or multiple people) whose kink is you. You may be more niche, but you aren't necessarily unattractive.
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