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Writing this off the top of my dome.
I've noticed this about me the past 1 year plus.
I'll have a period where I do something cool- could be social, could be some great workouts in succession, could be something money related.
I'll have a feeling of freedom, of moving forward, of coming into my own, of making progress.
I'll think 'this is it, I'm changing, finally. From now on I'll be a different man'.
Then the next day, sure enough, I'll eventually revert to laziness, fear of putting myself out there, and wanting to just bliss out and be comfortable.
This wasn't how it was for me a decade ago. Whether I was doing pickup, socializing, working out or doing standup comedy, I'd build momentum fast. A good day would lead to another good day, then a great day, then most of my days were good, then great.
The past year, I've certainly had some good days, but I'd come back to 'reality' the next day, and I didn't understand why.
I'm starting to understand now.
This is a safety-obsessed culture.
This is a culture where the primary value is SAFETY.
They want men to act in a way that makes everyone feel safe. They want to feel comfort at all times.
But the problem is, the male soul isn't driven by safety.
Only women and children are meant to be safe.
Look at Ukraine- the women are in Germany shaking their assess on Tiktok, and whoring themselves out.
The men are anything but safe. They are getting butchered on the frontlines
And the women, the feminists, the Western globalists who support Ukraine, and the NPCs couldn't give a damn....because they KNOW it's not for men to be safe.....
Yet they tell YOU to prioritize safety above everything today. Do you see the paradox?
The values that are in your heart are the antithesis to the values of this society, to the mood that hits you when you leave the house- hell, even the mood in your head, after you've devoured years of this conditioning. It's seeped in there. Your head and your heart are fighting against each other.
Every day, your head tries to pull you back into safety, into comfort. You've been conditioned into prioritizing safety, and fearing not being safe and comfortable
But your soul gets that buzz when you risk it, when you put it all on the line.
What to do?
-Take risks daily. Go on an adventure daily. Do something daily you wouldn't usually do
-When you're around people socially, think of the worst case scenario that could happen- ie you fuck up infront of a group and look like a fool.....secretly welcome it in your mind. Trust me, your soul welcomes it, it doesn't give a fuck if it happens or not. But the conditioning in your head has taught you to be afraid of it.
-Realize that a comfort free lifestyle is ideal. I'm still addicted to escapes too much- porn, nicotine lozenges, coffee, fantasy thoughts etc...but I'm gradually getting rid of some. The energy I'd have if I rid myself of all of them would be dangerous and profound.
-Stop attaching your identity to material things. If you've got a 5/10 body, a lay count of 3 and 2k in savings, and you're stagnant....guess what, you're going to feel as miserable if you've got a 7/10 body, 35 slays and 40k in the bank, if you're stagnant then. Stagnation kills. See your life as a daily adventure that you have to lift yourself out of comfort every day.
Do this long enough, and yes you will start building things in your life. But that life will be THE LIFE YOU'RE MEANT TO HAVE...not the life programmed to you, or the life the instagram model has. This is what you call 'designing your life', following your spirit.
This is the way forward. The way of fighting against comfort, and fighting against obsession with safety.
I've noticed this about me the past 1 year plus.
I'll have a period where I do something cool- could be social, could be some great workouts in succession, could be something money related.
I'll have a feeling of freedom, of moving forward, of coming into my own, of making progress.
I'll think 'this is it, I'm changing, finally. From now on I'll be a different man'.
Then the next day, sure enough, I'll eventually revert to laziness, fear of putting myself out there, and wanting to just bliss out and be comfortable.
This wasn't how it was for me a decade ago. Whether I was doing pickup, socializing, working out or doing standup comedy, I'd build momentum fast. A good day would lead to another good day, then a great day, then most of my days were good, then great.
The past year, I've certainly had some good days, but I'd come back to 'reality' the next day, and I didn't understand why.
I'm starting to understand now.
This is a safety-obsessed culture.
This is a culture where the primary value is SAFETY.
They want men to act in a way that makes everyone feel safe. They want to feel comfort at all times.
But the problem is, the male soul isn't driven by safety.
Only women and children are meant to be safe.
Look at Ukraine- the women are in Germany shaking their assess on Tiktok, and whoring themselves out.
The men are anything but safe. They are getting butchered on the frontlines
And the women, the feminists, the Western globalists who support Ukraine, and the NPCs couldn't give a damn....because they KNOW it's not for men to be safe.....
Yet they tell YOU to prioritize safety above everything today. Do you see the paradox?
The values that are in your heart are the antithesis to the values of this society, to the mood that hits you when you leave the house- hell, even the mood in your head, after you've devoured years of this conditioning. It's seeped in there. Your head and your heart are fighting against each other.
Every day, your head tries to pull you back into safety, into comfort. You've been conditioned into prioritizing safety, and fearing not being safe and comfortable
But your soul gets that buzz when you risk it, when you put it all on the line.
What to do?
-Take risks daily. Go on an adventure daily. Do something daily you wouldn't usually do
-When you're around people socially, think of the worst case scenario that could happen- ie you fuck up infront of a group and look like a fool.....secretly welcome it in your mind. Trust me, your soul welcomes it, it doesn't give a fuck if it happens or not. But the conditioning in your head has taught you to be afraid of it.
-Realize that a comfort free lifestyle is ideal. I'm still addicted to escapes too much- porn, nicotine lozenges, coffee, fantasy thoughts etc...but I'm gradually getting rid of some. The energy I'd have if I rid myself of all of them would be dangerous and profound.
-Stop attaching your identity to material things. If you've got a 5/10 body, a lay count of 3 and 2k in savings, and you're stagnant....guess what, you're going to feel as miserable if you've got a 7/10 body, 35 slays and 40k in the bank, if you're stagnant then. Stagnation kills. See your life as a daily adventure that you have to lift yourself out of comfort every day.
Do this long enough, and yes you will start building things in your life. But that life will be THE LIFE YOU'RE MEANT TO HAVE...not the life programmed to you, or the life the instagram model has. This is what you call 'designing your life', following your spirit.
This is the way forward. The way of fighting against comfort, and fighting against obsession with safety.
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