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If you want to learn how to make a Tinder profile
that gets more matches than you know what to do with, look no further.
Here you will learn my techniques for developing a Tinder profile that gets you plenty of matches and women to message you first.
Whether you are on Tinder for dating or hoping to hookup
It all starts with one thing: getting more matches.
You probably think this sounds too good to be true or why the hell would I trust this random guy with my online dating profile?
So id like to share my profile and some of my statistics from Tinder Insight:
What are we up against?
I know you’re hungry for the techniques.
But first, we need to cover what you’re up against.
It’s no secret that men have a much harder time with Tinder dating than women do.
But a quick look at the numbers behind this phenomenon is pretty staggering…
It’s much worse than you think.
On Tinder, the statistics heavily favor woman.
It shows that the top 10% of men get 58% of all matches.
So what does this mean?
It means that you need to put yourself in the top 10% of men.
Chances are if you’re reading this article you’re not in that coveted 10%.
this is why you need all the help you can get and require the techniques all of which you’re going to learn in this guide.
… and you know what?
That’s okay.
It turns out that getting into that top 10% isn’t purely about your genetics.
It’s all about your presentation.
So when asking that age-old question about whether looks matter on Tinder…
3# What pictures to use?
It’s summer.
You’re in your back yard, your friends are over, and the grille is going.
(Impossible burgers, of course.)
Music is playing, and you even have a pool to cool off in.
Pretty nice, right?
Meanwhile, your neighbor a few houses down has a similar set up.
You really don’t hang out with your neighbor, but he seems fine.
Now, let me ask you a question:
Under what circumstances would you abandon all your friends and hop the fence to join his BBQ?
If you and him already have the same set up…
Why would you leave the comfort of your own house to join his party?
It’d have to be something big:
Tinder is no different.
When a girl looks at your profile, you need to convince her to “jump the fence” to come join you.
Her “yard” is already full of her close friends, family, and even some dudes she casually sleeps with.
(Awkward, right?)
So why would she leave the comfort of her own world to join yours?
The answer is you need to have something that she doesn’t have.
Something that is so compelling she will “jump ship” and come join you.
If a woman is interested in you, she will do anything to hang out.
She will skip homework, ditch classes, take off work, and bail on her family if you’re worth while.
When a girl, or even a guy, looks at your profile they should say to themselves:
Wow, he looks awesome to hang out with.
That’s what the “hop the fence” principal is about.
The image should look way more fun than what someone looking could be doing that day.
You want to bring them on a journey…
Lets use my first pic as an example:
For example:
it's probably evening, a girl opens up tinder, shes sitting comfortably in her bed and watching Netflix while scrolling tinder or whatever,
this doesn't sound too bad right?
That's what you're probably competing against, have to BEAT whatever she's doing at that exact moment.
A date scenario, which looks to be fun as he's smiling, approachable and there's probably food included doesn't sound for that particular girl then. hence you get a right swipe
She instantly decides within a fraction of a second whether she’s going to swipe right or left on you.
And she makes that decision almost exclusively on your profile picture.
I want to stress this.
Her choice is:
Don’t get me wrong.
Your supplemental photos and your bio are important.
Since she can preview your other photos before swiping right.
But that doesn’t minimize the importance of the first.
You’re communicating your values and how you view yourself by the choice of your first photo.
So there’s little need to keep looking if she’s decided you suck.
We know this intuitively.
And yet the overwhelming majority of guys use random pictures from Facebook.
Or terrible bathroom selfies as their profile photos.
Stop.
Stop.
Pls.
ill start by showing you an example
it's short, hard to find anything that can be seen as a red flag and includes a call to action.
as a bonus, I caught a trending topic at the time (Bridgerton season 2 came out) so managed to get a lot of traction from that
nothing less, nothing more.
5# Tinder ELO & Premium
6# What to do once you have created your account:
7# Texting/converting matches - in progress
This thread will continue to be updated once I have more time on my hands and is far from done, but posted as people can use what is already written to improve their OLD experience in the meantime - also let me know if there's stuff missing and ill add it to my guide
that gets more matches than you know what to do with, look no further.
Here you will learn my techniques for developing a Tinder profile that gets you plenty of matches and women to message you first.
Whether you are on Tinder for dating or hoping to hookup
It all starts with one thing: getting more matches.
You probably think this sounds too good to be true or why the hell would I trust this random guy with my online dating profile?
So id like to share my profile and some of my statistics from Tinder Insight:
1# Tinder Statistics Are Against You
What are we up against?
I know you’re hungry for the techniques.
But first, we need to cover what you’re up against.
It’s no secret that men have a much harder time with Tinder dating than women do.
But a quick look at the numbers behind this phenomenon is pretty staggering…
It’s much worse than you think.
On Tinder, the statistics heavily favor woman.
- Women get 20X more matches than men.
- 59% percent of women like less than 10% of the male profiles.
- Only 9% of men are that selective.
- 33% of men reported “casually liking most profiles.”
- 0% of women report “casually liking most profiles.”
- That’s worth saying again, women don’t casually swipe right.
- 93% of women only like profiles that they’re attracted to.
But It Gets Even Worse
80% of men on Tinder are competing for the bottom 22% of female Tinder users.It shows that the top 10% of men get 58% of all matches.
So what does this mean?
It means that you need to put yourself in the top 10% of men.
Chances are if you’re reading this article you’re not in that coveted 10%.
this is why you need all the help you can get and require the techniques all of which you’re going to learn in this guide.
Getting In The Top 10%
you’re probably thinking:- I’m not attractive enough to be in the top 10%.
- I’m overweight.
- I have acne.
- My hair is thinning.
… and you know what?
That’s okay.
It turns out that getting into that top 10% isn’t purely about your genetics.
It’s all about your presentation.
So when asking that age-old question about whether looks matter on Tinder…
2# Do Looks Matter On Tinder?
If you think the answer is “yes” you’d be right.
But there is a major caveat.
The concept of “looks” actually includes two completely distinct categories.
But one plays a much more important role.
Genetics is what you’re born with.
These are factors that are out of your control.
On Tinder, they act as a bonus.
Making everything a little easier.
On the other hand…
Presentation is a visual representation of your choices.
Presentation represents your…
But you’re going to need more than that to get
— and keep if that's your goal —
the highest quality women you can get on tinder.
How can you actually show your ambition, intelligence, experience and personality?
Especially in a photo?
The reality is: it’s easy.
The choices you make are reflected in your “looks.”
Here are some examples:
This is not shallow.
This is presenting the qualities, choices, and experiences that make you who you are.
Getting into that top 10% is simple.
Here’s the big secret:
It’s not about being in the top 10% most genetically attractive.
It’s about having one of the top 10% best presented Tinder profiles.
I really want to stress this.
Looks matter.
But it’s about the presentation of the features you have.
And not so much about the features themselves.
But there is a major caveat.
The concept of “looks” actually includes two completely distinct categories.
- Genetics.
- Presentation.
But one plays a much more important role.
Genetics is what you’re born with.
- Bone structure.
- Skin condition/type (to some extent).
- Your height.
These are factors that are out of your control.
On Tinder, they act as a bonus.
Making everything a little easier.
On the other hand…
Presentation is a visual representation of your choices.
Presentation represents your…
- Attitude.
- Experience.
- Intelligence.
- Competence.
- Trustworthiness.
- Confidence.
- Personality.
- Ambition.
Why Presentation Matters
Your genetics might be enough for a quick hookup in a club.But you’re going to need more than that to get
— and keep if that's your goal —
the highest quality women you can get on tinder.
How can you actually show your ambition, intelligence, experience and personality?
Especially in a photo?
The reality is: it’s easy.
The choices you make are reflected in your “looks.”
Here are some examples:
- Being overweight is a choice. It reflects your lack of willpower.
- Being fit is a choice. It reflects your determination.
- Wearing well fitting clothes is a choice. It reflects your social awareness.
This is not shallow.
This is presenting the qualities, choices, and experiences that make you who you are.
Getting into that top 10% is simple.
Here’s the big secret:
It’s not about being in the top 10% most genetically attractive.
It’s about having one of the top 10% best presented Tinder profiles.
I really want to stress this.
Looks matter.
But it’s about the presentation of the features you have.
And not so much about the features themselves.
3# What pictures to use?
REMEMBER TO TURN OFF SMART PHOTOS
What You DON'T Want In Your Profile Photo.
For starters, your profile photo should never be:- A selfie.
- A poor quality photo (Bad lighting, taken with flash, or at night.)
- A group photo (Save that for photo 2 or 3.)
- A photo where your face is unclear (sunglasses = bad.)
- A photo where you’re far away from the camera.
So What Should Your Profile Photo Be?
The brain doesn’t like to be confused, so the most attractive profile photo is:- A clean headshot, preferably showing the upper third of your body.
- A high-quality photo, with some clear contrast between you and the background.
- A photo of you alone.
- A photo without distracting “noise” in the background.
- A photo where your face is clearly shown (NO SUNGLASSES!)
The “Hop The Fence” Principal - technique 1
Close your eyes.It’s summer.
You’re in your back yard, your friends are over, and the grille is going.
(Impossible burgers, of course.)
Music is playing, and you even have a pool to cool off in.
Pretty nice, right?
Meanwhile, your neighbor a few houses down has a similar set up.
You really don’t hang out with your neighbor, but he seems fine.
Now, let me ask you a question:
Under what circumstances would you abandon all your friends and hop the fence to join his BBQ?
If you and him already have the same set up…
Why would you leave the comfort of your own house to join his party?
It’d have to be something big:
- Maybe a ton of people showed up, and their party looks way more fun.
- Maybe it turns out he’s a stand up comedian and his jokes are so funny you need to head over.
- Or maybe everyone at his party is going to accompany him back to his boat for an afterparty.
Tinder is no different.
When a girl looks at your profile, you need to convince her to “jump the fence” to come join you.
Her “yard” is already full of her close friends, family, and even some dudes she casually sleeps with.
(Awkward, right?)
So why would she leave the comfort of her own world to join yours?
The answer is you need to have something that she doesn’t have.
Something that is so compelling she will “jump ship” and come join you.
If a woman is interested in you, she will do anything to hang out.
She will skip homework, ditch classes, take off work, and bail on her family if you’re worth while.
When a girl, or even a guy, looks at your profile they should say to themselves:
Wow, he looks awesome to hang out with.
If you want matches on Tinder, you can not be boring!That’s what the “hop the fence” principal is about.
The image should look way more fun than what someone looking could be doing that day.
You want to bring them on a journey…
Lets use my first pic as an example:
For example:
it's probably evening, a girl opens up tinder, shes sitting comfortably in her bed and watching Netflix while scrolling tinder or whatever,
this doesn't sound too bad right?
That's what you're probably competing against, have to BEAT whatever she's doing at that exact moment.
A date scenario, which looks to be fun as he's smiling, approachable and there's probably food included doesn't sound for that particular girl then. hence you get a right swipe
How To Get Images This Good.
When a girl looks at your profile this is what happens:She instantly decides within a fraction of a second whether she’s going to swipe right or left on you.
And she makes that decision almost exclusively on your profile picture.
I want to stress this.
Her choice is:
- Instantaneous.
- Unconscious.
Don’t get me wrong.
Your supplemental photos and your bio are important.
Since she can preview your other photos before swiping right.
But that doesn’t minimize the importance of the first.
You’re communicating your values and how you view yourself by the choice of your first photo.
So there’s little need to keep looking if she’s decided you suck.
We know this intuitively.
And yet the overwhelming majority of guys use random pictures from Facebook.
Or terrible bathroom selfies as their profile photos.
Stop.
Stop.
Pls.
4# Your Tinder bio:
ill start by showing you an example
it's short, hard to find anything that can be seen as a red flag and includes a call to action.
as a bonus, I caught a trending topic at the time (Bridgerton season 2 came out) so managed to get a lot of traction from that
nothing less, nothing more.
Your beauty is for sure important while dating. But a good photo is not about that! Spending time shooting the perfect picture can really skyrocket your results alone. Then swiping will get more pleasant.
Your general attractiveness depends on your behavior. The algorithm knows it!
The better Tinder user you are, the more likely to be shown you are.
A lot of people think that Tinder ranks its users by their looks, but this is not the case. In fact, there are three main factors in a person's attractiveness: profile pictures; behavior on the app (swiping right to like someone and left to pass); and interactions with others through messages or matches.
A lot of little details are favored by the app: how often do you use it? How long? How fast and often do you engage with your matches?
It is easy. There are 2 main things you need to do. First, show Tinder that you are a person of high value and success. Second, behave like a person of high value and model the behavior of other people on Tinder.
You can improve your profile by editing your photos and adding a bio. This is the key to better online dating results and improving your score! Think about quality. A bad photo can really impact your ratings.
Many people don't take enough pictures of themselves, or they think it's useless to spend time on that.
But this can help you stand out among other men on the app!
Second point: be a model user.
Respect yourself and behave like a high-value individual.
Your usage of the app will impact your ELO a lot!. What would a high-value person do? Swipe only on the girls you REALLY like.
If you swipe right fiercely on all the girls that are shown to you, you will quickly be perceived as a non-selective person. And will therefore be shown anyone, or mainly similar users, that may not be so attractive.
Engage FAST with your Tinder matches.
Send your first message fast to the woman you matched!
It is not in Tinder's interest to let matches expire so they are motivated for both parties to keep the conversation going.
This means that if you engage with people on tinder, it will increase your ELO score. If a person doesn't interact at all with anyone on tinder, their ELO rank decreases and this can lead them to get booted off of the app completely or have limited access to other users.
It joins what I just described, paying makes you a better user from Tinder's perspective. It could be Tinder plus, Tinder gold, or Tinder Platinum (The best choice).
But I insist. Build a strong profile, and strong habits, with quality photos before!
You can get a lot of quality matches before spending a single dime.
Your general attractiveness depends on your behavior. The algorithm knows it!
The better Tinder user you are, the more likely to be shown you are.
A lot of people think that Tinder ranks its users by their looks, but this is not the case. In fact, there are three main factors in a person's attractiveness: profile pictures; behavior on the app (swiping right to like someone and left to pass); and interactions with others through messages or matches.
A lot of little details are favored by the app: how often do you use it? How long? How fast and often do you engage with your matches?
It is easy. There are 2 main things you need to do. First, show Tinder that you are a person of high value and success. Second, behave like a person of high value and model the behavior of other people on Tinder.
You can improve your profile by editing your photos and adding a bio. This is the key to better online dating results and improving your score! Think about quality. A bad photo can really impact your ratings.
Many people don't take enough pictures of themselves, or they think it's useless to spend time on that.
But this can help you stand out among other men on the app!
Second point: be a model user.
Respect yourself and behave like a high-value individual.
Your usage of the app will impact your ELO a lot!. What would a high-value person do? Swipe only on the girls you REALLY like.
If you swipe right fiercely on all the girls that are shown to you, you will quickly be perceived as a non-selective person. And will therefore be shown anyone, or mainly similar users, that may not be so attractive.
Engage FAST with your Tinder matches.
Send your first message fast to the woman you matched!
It is not in Tinder's interest to let matches expire so they are motivated for both parties to keep the conversation going.
This means that if you engage with people on tinder, it will increase your ELO score. If a person doesn't interact at all with anyone on tinder, their ELO rank decreases and this can lead them to get booted off of the app completely or have limited access to other users.
Is Tinder premium worth it?
A good way to improve your rank is to pay in the app. You will be shown more and get bonus exposure. But you should not do this if you have had no results before!It joins what I just described, paying makes you a better user from Tinder's perspective. It could be Tinder plus, Tinder gold, or Tinder Platinum (The best choice).
But I insist. Build a strong profile, and strong habits, with quality photos before!
You can get a lot of quality matches before spending a single dime.
6# What to do once you have created your account:
Once you have read the tinder guide and are ready to make your account follow these steps:
- Wait until Sunday evening to create your account
- Insert your pre-prepared data - bio, photos, interest and so forth
- Make sure you get your profile verified ASAP
- Start swiping selectively and spend as much time as you can on tinder throughout the week
- Once you get 99+ likes get tinder premium for optimal ELO
-Keep you profile as active as possible as inactivity heavily effects ELO
- Wait until Sunday evening to create your account
- Insert your pre-prepared data - bio, photos, interest and so forth
- Make sure you get your profile verified ASAP
- Start swiping selectively and spend as much time as you can on tinder throughout the week
- Once you get 99+ likes get tinder premium for optimal ELO
-Keep you profile as active as possible as inactivity heavily effects ELO
This thread will continue to be updated once I have more time on my hands and is far from done, but posted as people can use what is already written to improve their OLD experience in the meantime - also let me know if there's stuff missing and ill add it to my guide
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