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because whenever you have a positive social interaction your brain gets a drug-like surge of hormones that makes you feel happy, satisfied and content.
when i LDAR and don't accomplish anything for a long enough period, it spurs me to do something, that I hope will accumilate into something in the future. Exercise, work on projects, accumilate knowledge, plan.
However, instead of doing that I could "go out", go drinking, have vapid/sexual/shit talking/delusional conversations and get a good feeling 10 times as strong.
Talking with normies is especially worthless because you are incentivized to manipulate for certain responses, so saying anything useful or legit is a side effect at best. Aka Bluepill. If someone gives you advice and you take it seriously, they would be disgusted at your weakness. If you are addicted to socializing you will naturally seek "support" from other people instead of actively seeking to find solutions and fix whatever problems you may have. Because this doesn't fix the underlying problem the problem will naturally come back. Usually this lasts until the social group naturally fades from external circumstances. Then its betabux or desperate pathetic and alone. This is the life path of the average reddit user
This is however, only an ideal case scenario and most people with a dependence on social interaction pursue it relentlessly despite negative feedback. Good examples of this would be Jestering or Simping. Many years ago when I was retarded and young I was simp and my life revolved around obsessively thinking of cucked jokes to get crumbs of attention from females. If they laughed I would feel as if i made 10 million dollars and when they ignored me i would become obsessive and depressive.
I think the ideal is to have close extended family, maybe 1-3 close friends, buisness associates to network with and some social group you are well respected and can pop into randomly for a dopamine spiking that mogs playing video games
when i LDAR and don't accomplish anything for a long enough period, it spurs me to do something, that I hope will accumilate into something in the future. Exercise, work on projects, accumilate knowledge, plan.
However, instead of doing that I could "go out", go drinking, have vapid/sexual/shit talking/delusional conversations and get a good feeling 10 times as strong.
Talking with normies is especially worthless because you are incentivized to manipulate for certain responses, so saying anything useful or legit is a side effect at best. Aka Bluepill. If someone gives you advice and you take it seriously, they would be disgusted at your weakness. If you are addicted to socializing you will naturally seek "support" from other people instead of actively seeking to find solutions and fix whatever problems you may have. Because this doesn't fix the underlying problem the problem will naturally come back. Usually this lasts until the social group naturally fades from external circumstances. Then its betabux or desperate pathetic and alone. This is the life path of the average reddit user
This is however, only an ideal case scenario and most people with a dependence on social interaction pursue it relentlessly despite negative feedback. Good examples of this would be Jestering or Simping. Many years ago when I was retarded and young I was simp and my life revolved around obsessively thinking of cucked jokes to get crumbs of attention from females. If they laughed I would feel as if i made 10 million dollars and when they ignored me i would become obsessive and depressive.
I think the ideal is to have close extended family, maybe 1-3 close friends, buisness associates to network with and some social group you are well respected and can pop into randomly for a dopamine spiking that mogs playing video games
